Asymptomatic STIs: A Case Study in Long-Term Relationships - Urology

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Two years of dating among gay men, yet no sexually transmitted infections (STIs) detected?


Hello, I have been in a stable relationship for 2 years, and we have not engaged in casual encounters.
I have consulted with a doctor in the outpatient clinic, and they mentioned that a virus must have a source to cause an infection.
However, I have been infected twice with gonorrhea and once with chlamydia, while my partner had a gonorrhea culture done at the hospital that showed no reaction! Is it possible that they are an asymptomatic carrier, especially since this was my first sexual encounter? If I really want to know if there are any viruses in my body, should I see an infectious disease specialist? Are there any tests available to detect this? I really want to know where the virus came from.
Thank you, doctor.

Mr. Chen, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/07/24

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: Asymptomatic carriers should be tested positive.
The infectious disease department is responsible for diagnosing and treating infections, but it is recommended to consult a large hospital.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2021/07/24

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Understanding asymptomatic sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is crucial, especially in long-term relationships where both partners may assume they are safe from infections. In your case, having been in a stable relationship for two years without any extramarital encounters, it raises important questions about the source of your infections and the potential for asymptomatic carriers.

Firstly, it is indeed possible for someone to be an asymptomatic carrier of STIs. Many STIs, including gonorrhea (the bacteria causing gonorrhea) and chlamydia (the bacteria causing chlamydia), can exist in the body without causing noticeable symptoms. This means that one partner could be infected without knowing it, and they could transmit the infection to the other partner during sexual activity. In your situation, since your partner tested negative for gonorrhea despite your infections, it raises the possibility that they may be an asymptomatic carrier of another STI or that the infections could have originated from a previous partner or encounter.

To address your concerns about the source of your infections, it is advisable to undergo comprehensive STI screening. This can include tests for various STIs, including gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, and HIV, among others. You can consult with a healthcare provider, such as an infectious disease specialist or a gynecologist, who can guide you through the appropriate tests. They may recommend urine tests, blood tests, or swabs from the genital area to accurately diagnose any infections.

In addition to testing, it is essential to have open and honest communication with your partner about sexual health. Discussing STI testing and results can help both partners feel more secure and informed about their sexual health. It may also be beneficial to consider mutual testing, where both partners get tested together, to ensure that both are aware of their STI status.

If you are experiencing symptoms or have concerns about your sexual health, it is crucial to seek medical advice promptly. Symptoms of STIs can sometimes be subtle or mistaken for other conditions, so a healthcare professional can provide a thorough evaluation and appropriate treatment if necessary.

In summary, asymptomatic STIs can pose a significant risk in long-term relationships, and understanding the dynamics of transmission is vital. Regular STI screenings, open communication with your partner, and consulting with healthcare professionals can help you navigate these concerns effectively. If you suspect you may have been exposed to an STI or are experiencing symptoms, do not hesitate to seek medical attention. Your health and well-being should always be a priority.

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