Post-Childbirth Pain During Intercourse: Causes and Solutions - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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Pain after sexual intercourse?


Hello doctor, after giving birth last year, I have noticed that my body does not produce lubrication during sexual intercourse, and it feels very dry each time.
Could this be due to having given birth? We have been using lubricant, but I still experience pain at the vaginal opening after intercourse.
Additionally, I am currently pregnant.
Can this symptom be treated with medication, or should I wait until after giving birth for treatment? Thank you!

Ting, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/07/28

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Hello, it is generally unrelated to childbirth; using lubricants is fine.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2021/07/28

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Post-childbirth pain during intercourse is a common concern for many women, and it can be attributed to several factors. After giving birth, hormonal changes, physical trauma, and psychological factors can all contribute to discomfort during sexual activity.
One of the primary reasons for the lack of natural lubrication and pain during intercourse is hormonal changes, particularly a decrease in estrogen levels. Estrogen plays a crucial role in maintaining vaginal health, including lubrication and elasticity. After childbirth, especially if a woman is breastfeeding, estrogen levels can remain low, leading to vaginal dryness. This can make intercourse uncomfortable or even painful.

Additionally, physical trauma from childbirth, such as tearing or episiotomy, can result in scarring or sensitivity in the vaginal area. Even if the external wounds have healed, internal healing may still be ongoing, and this can contribute to discomfort during sexual activity. It's also important to consider that psychological factors, such as anxiety or stress related to the changes in your body or the new responsibilities of motherhood, can also play a role in sexual discomfort.

In your case, since you mentioned experiencing pain during intercourse even with the use of lubricants, it would be advisable to consult with a healthcare provider. They can assess whether there are any underlying issues, such as pelvic floor dysfunction or residual scarring from childbirth, that may be contributing to your symptoms.
As for your current pregnancy, it is generally recommended to avoid any medications or treatments that are not specifically prescribed by your healthcare provider. Many treatments for vaginal dryness or discomfort are safe to use postpartum, but during pregnancy, it is crucial to prioritize the safety of both you and your baby.
After giving birth, there are several approaches you can consider to alleviate discomfort during intercourse:
1. Use of Lubricants: While you mentioned using lubricants, ensure that you are using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant, as these are generally safe and effective. Avoid oil-based lubricants if you are using latex condoms, as they can cause the condom to break.

2. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Engaging in pelvic floor exercises (Kegel exercises) can help strengthen the pelvic muscles, improve blood flow to the area, and enhance sexual function.

3. Gradual Reintroduction: If you are experiencing pain, it may be helpful to gradually reintroduce sexual activity. Start with gentle activities that do not cause discomfort, and communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and needs.

4. Consultation with a Specialist: If the pain persists, consider consulting a gynecologist or a pelvic floor physical therapist. They can provide targeted treatments and exercises to help alleviate pain and improve your sexual health.

5. Hormonal Treatments: After childbirth, if hormonal changes are significant contributors to your symptoms, your healthcare provider may discuss options such as vaginal estrogen therapy, which can help restore moisture and elasticity to the vaginal tissues.

In summary, while post-childbirth pain during intercourse can be distressing, it is often manageable with the right approach and support. It is essential to communicate openly with your healthcare provider about your symptoms, especially during pregnancy, to ensure that you receive appropriate care tailored to your needs.

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