Difficulty with masturbation?
Hello, doctor.
During masturbation, the first 10 minutes feel normal with erections and pleasure, but after that, it starts to soften and eventually becomes completely flaccid, with the glans turning pale.
Continuing stimulation does not produce any pleasure, and ultimately, there is no ejaculation.
My first question is: is this a normal condition? My second question is: does not ejaculating have any effects on the body? (During masturbation, I do not feel the climax or excitement of ejaculation.)
Jun, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/08/02
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Your issue is quite rare.
If it occurs frequently, it is considered abnormal.
I recommend paying attention to exercise and avoiding overly greasy foods.
In Western medicine, refraining from ejaculation during masturbation is not considered healthy; however, your situation is different as you do not feel arousal or orgasm.
In such cases, it is generally unlikely to ejaculate.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2021/08/02
More Info
Understanding the difficulty in masturbation can be a complex issue that involves both physiological and psychological factors. Your experience of having an initial phase of erection and pleasure that diminishes over time, leading to a loss of erection and sensation, is not uncommon. Let's break down your questions and provide a comprehensive understanding of the situation.
1. Is this a normal situation?
The phenomenon you described can occur for various reasons and is not necessarily indicative of a medical problem. Here are some potential explanations:
- Physiological Factors: The body can experience changes in blood flow and nerve sensitivity during sexual arousal. After a certain period of stimulation, it is possible for the body to enter a refractory phase where the erection diminishes. This can be influenced by factors such as fatigue, hydration levels, and even the time of day.
- Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, or distractions can significantly impact sexual performance and arousal. If you are preoccupied with thoughts or concerns during masturbation, this can lead to a decrease in arousal and pleasure. Performance anxiety, in particular, can create a cycle where the fear of not achieving orgasm leads to further difficulties.
- Hormonal Influences: Testosterone levels play a crucial role in sexual arousal and function. Fluctuations in hormone levels can affect libido and the ability to maintain an erection.
- Age and Health: As men age, changes in erectile function are common. Conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, or cardiovascular issues can also affect erectile quality and sexual performance.
In summary, while your experience may feel concerning, it can be a normal variation in sexual function. However, if this pattern persists or worsens, it may be worth consulting a healthcare professional for further evaluation.
2. Does not ejaculating have any health implications?
Not ejaculating during masturbation or sexual activity is generally not harmful to physical health. Here are some points to consider:
- Physical Health: Regular ejaculation is often associated with certain health benefits, such as a reduced risk of prostate cancer. However, the absence of ejaculation during masturbation does not pose immediate health risks. The body will continue to produce sperm, and the absence of ejaculation does not lead to any long-term negative effects.
- Psychological Impact: If the inability to reach orgasm or ejaculation leads to feelings of frustration, anxiety, or decreased self-esteem, it may be beneficial to address these feelings. Engaging in open conversations with a partner or seeking therapy can help alleviate psychological distress.
- Potential for Changes: If you find that your ability to achieve orgasm or maintain an erection continues to decline, it may be worth exploring potential underlying causes. Lifestyle factors such as diet, exercise, and mental health can all play significant roles in sexual function.
Conclusion
In conclusion, your experience of difficulty in maintaining an erection and achieving orgasm during masturbation is not uncommon and can be influenced by various factors. It is essential to consider both physical and psychological aspects when evaluating sexual health. If these issues persist or cause significant distress, seeking advice from a healthcare provider or a mental health professional can provide valuable insights and support. Remember, sexual health is an integral part of overall well-being, and addressing concerns openly can lead to better outcomes.
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