In recent years, there has been an issue with poor sleep?
Hello Doctor, my husband and I are around 35-37 years old.
Let me start with my husband.
About five years ago, he had a nightmare and reflexively hit me (it was a serious hit).
At that time, he said it was due to stress, but since then, similar incidents have occurred intermittently.
Now it happens about once or twice every six months (I haven't kept track precisely).
In the past couple of years, I've noticed that sometimes while he is sleeping, his mouth will suddenly open slightly, and he will have facial twitching; sometimes it escalates to full-body shaking, lasting about two to three seconds, occurring three to four times.
This happens approximately three to four times a week.
Personally, I feel that it looks very much like a possession, although that's unlikely to happen.
He always says he was dreaming, but I don't seem to exhibit any external reactions (like punching or shaking) when I dream.
Could you please advise what might be going on with him? Is it necessary for him to see a sleep specialist? Additionally, I notice his shaking affects my sleep quality, as I wake up whenever he shakes, and then I have trouble falling back asleep.
Currently, my sleep duration is about 3-5 hours, but I still feel relatively alert for work in the morning.
I'm just concerned about the potential effects of such short sleep duration (though I used to be able to sleep soundly through the night).
Thank you, Doctor, for taking the time to read and respond.
Ms. Chen, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/09/06
Dr. Xue Gengming reply Psychiatry
It is recommended that Ms.
Chen and her husband visit the psychosomatic medicine outpatient clinic together to see if any relevant examinations are needed.
Thank you, and wishing you good health!
Reply Date: 2021/09/06
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Sleep disorders can significantly impact both physical and mental health, and it’s essential to recognize when to seek help. Based on your description, it seems that both you and your husband are experiencing various sleep disturbances that could benefit from professional evaluation.
Your husband’s experiences of acting out dreams, such as hitting you during nightmares and exhibiting involuntary movements like facial twitching and body shaking, could indicate a condition known as REM Sleep Behavior Disorder (RBD). This disorder occurs when the normal paralysis that occurs during REM sleep is absent, allowing individuals to physically act out their dreams. RBD can be associated with other neurological conditions, so it is crucial for him to consult a sleep specialist for a thorough evaluation.
In addition to RBD, the symptoms you describe could also be related to other sleep disorders, such as sleep apnea or periodic limb movement disorder. Sleep apnea, characterized by pauses in breathing during sleep, can lead to fragmented sleep and excessive daytime sleepiness. Periodic limb movement disorder involves involuntary leg movements during sleep, which can disrupt sleep quality for both the individual and their partner.
Your own sleep disturbances, particularly the impact of your husband’s movements on your sleep quality, are also concerning. It’s not uncommon for one partner’s sleep issues to affect the other’s sleep, leading to a cycle of poor sleep quality. Chronic sleep deprivation can lead to a range of health issues, including impaired cognitive function, mood disturbances, and increased risk for chronic conditions such as obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease.
Given that your husband has been experiencing these symptoms for several years, and considering the potential implications for both of your health, it is advisable to seek help from a sleep specialist. They can conduct a sleep study (polysomnography) to monitor his sleep patterns and movements, which will provide valuable insights into the underlying causes of his symptoms.
In the meantime, there are several strategies you both can implement to improve your sleep environment and quality:
1. Sleep Hygiene: Establish a consistent sleep schedule by going to bed and waking up at the same time every day. Create a relaxing bedtime routine to signal to your body that it’s time to wind down.
2. Comfortable Sleep Environment: Ensure your bedroom is conducive to sleep—dark, quiet, and cool. Consider using earplugs or a white noise machine to mask disruptive sounds.
3. Limit Stimulants: Avoid caffeine and nicotine in the hours leading up to bedtime, as these can interfere with your ability to fall asleep.
4. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Incorporate relaxation exercises, such as deep breathing, meditation, or gentle yoga, to help reduce anxiety and promote better sleep.
5. Avoid Heavy Meals Before Bed: Eating large meals close to bedtime can disrupt sleep. If you’re hungry, opt for a light snack.
6. Physical Activity: Regular exercise can help improve sleep quality, but try to avoid vigorous workouts close to bedtime.
7. Limit Screen Time: Reduce exposure to screens (phones, tablets, TVs) at least an hour before bed, as the blue light emitted can interfere with melatonin production.
8. Consult a Professional: If sleep disturbances persist, it’s essential to seek help from a healthcare provider. They can assess for underlying conditions and recommend appropriate treatments, which may include cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) or medication if necessary.
In conclusion, both you and your husband are experiencing significant sleep disturbances that warrant professional evaluation. By addressing these issues early, you can work towards improving your sleep quality and overall health. Don’t hesitate to reach out to a sleep specialist who can provide tailored guidance and support.
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