Can You Get Pregnant from Foreplay? the Risks

Can I get pregnant?

A few days ago, my girlfriend and I were engaging in mutual fondling.
Before that, we took a shower (I had masturbated in the morning, and during the shower, I only pulled back my foreskin and rubbed a little).
Normally, my foreskin is covering the glans.
After the shower, we touched each other's genitals and then I performed oral sex on her (about three minutes after washing).
My fingers did not penetrate, but I did part her labia (if I were to describe the depth of contact with the vagina, it was only to the extent visible from the outside, as I had to spread the labia).
After mutual fondling, I believe there was no pre-ejaculate on my hands (but I'm not entirely sure; if there was any, it should have been a small amount).
We did not take emergency contraception afterward.
Is there a possibility that sperm could swim through saliva to the uterus and cause pregnancy? Both my girlfriend and I do not want to have children right now.
Note 1: We were not in an air-conditioned room.
Note 2: My girlfriend has irregular menstrual cycles.

Chen, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/12/02

Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, based on your description, the chances of pregnancy are low because there are unlikely to be viable sperm remaining.
However, as long as there are active sperm in the vagina during the ovulation period, regardless of the method of intercourse, there is still a possibility of pregnancy.
It is advisable to take appropriate contraceptive measures.
If your period is delayed or if necessary, please consult a physician for evaluation.
Thank you! Wishing you peace and health.
Dr.
Chang

Reply Date: 2021/12/02

More Info

When it comes to the question of whether you can get pregnant from foreplay, it's essential to understand the mechanics of conception and the factors involved in the reproductive process.
Pregnancy occurs when sperm fertilizes an egg, which typically happens during vaginal intercourse when sperm is deposited in the vagina. However, the scenario you described involves various forms of sexual activity, including mutual touching and oral sex, without direct vaginal penetration.
In your case, you mentioned that you engaged in foreplay, which included touching and oral sex, and you are concerned about the possibility of sperm reaching the vagina and leading to pregnancy. Here are some key points to consider:
1. Sperm Viability: Sperm can survive outside the body for a limited time. When exposed to air, sperm quickly lose their motility and ability to fertilize an egg. In a moist environment, such as on the skin or in bodily fluids, sperm may survive for a short period, but their ability to swim and reach the egg diminishes significantly.

2. Pre-ejaculate Fluid: You mentioned uncertainty about the presence of pre-ejaculate fluid (pre-cum) on your fingers. Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm, but the amount is typically much lower than in ejaculate. If there was no direct ejaculation and you are unsure if any pre-ejaculate was present, the risk of pregnancy is significantly reduced.

3. Oral Sex and Sperm Transfer: While oral sex can involve the transfer of bodily fluids, the likelihood of sperm traveling from the mouth to the vagina and leading to pregnancy is extremely low. Sperm would need to be in a viable state and somehow make its way into the vaginal canal, which is unlikely in the scenario you described.

4. Menstrual Cycle Considerations: You mentioned that your girlfriend has an irregular menstrual cycle. This can complicate understanding her fertile window, but it’s important to note that pregnancy is most likely to occur during ovulation, which typically happens about 14 days before the start of her next period. If she is not ovulating, the chances of conception are significantly lower.

5. Contraceptive Measures: Since both you and your girlfriend are not ready for a child, it’s crucial to consider effective contraceptive methods. Barrier methods, such as condoms, can help prevent the transfer of sperm during sexual activity, including foreplay. Additionally, discussing other contraceptive options with a healthcare provider can provide further protection.

In conclusion, while the risk of pregnancy from foreplay is generally low, it is not entirely absent, especially if there is any transfer of sperm. Given your concerns, it would be wise to consult with a healthcare professional for personalized advice and to discuss contraceptive options to prevent unintended pregnancy in the future. Open communication with your girlfriend about your concerns and plans for contraception is also essential for both of your peace of mind.

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