Erectile dysfunction
Doctor, I have a question.
During masturbation, my penis cannot maintain an erection and becomes soft within a few seconds.
I also feel no pleasure during the process; my penis feels numb, and the muscles in my perineum, similar to those used when trying to hold in urine, involuntarily tighten with the stimulation from my hand, making it feel like I can't ejaculate.
Why is this involuntary tightening happening? It was normal six months ago, but it has been strange for the past few months.
Juewang, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/02/06
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello, Despair: As you mentioned, this is certainly not caused by a single factor.
Given your significant decline and symptoms, I recommend visiting a hospital for a thorough examination to identify the correct underlying cause.
Only by addressing the specific issue can you hope to recover sooner.
While you may not be satisfied with this response, trust me, it is the most practical advice for you.
Targeted treatment is crucial, as various factors such as physical health, mental state, age, hormone levels, and current physical condition (which can be influenced by stress) all play a role.
Reply Date: 2022/02/06
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common issue that many men face at some point in their lives. Understanding the causes and potential solutions is crucial for addressing this condition effectively. Based on your description, it seems you are experiencing a combination of physical and psychological factors that may be contributing to your current difficulties with maintaining an erection and experiencing pleasure during masturbation.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
1. Physical Factors:
- Blood Flow Issues: ED can often be attributed to problems with blood flow to the penis. Conditions like diabetes, hypertension, and high cholesterol can damage blood vessels and restrict blood flow.
- Hormonal Imbalances: Low testosterone levels can also lead to erectile dysfunction. Hormonal changes can occur due to various reasons, including aging or medical conditions.
- Nerve Damage: Conditions that affect the nervous system, such as multiple sclerosis or spinal cord injuries, can interfere with the signals that trigger an erection.
2. Psychological Factors:
- Anxiety and Stress: Performance anxiety, stress from work or personal life, and depression can significantly impact sexual function. The mind plays a crucial role in sexual arousal, and psychological barriers can lead to physical responses like loss of erection.
- Conditioning: If you have experienced difficulties in the past, your brain may start to associate sexual activity with anxiety or failure, creating a cycle that perpetuates erectile dysfunction.
3. Lifestyle Factors:
- Sedentary Lifestyle: Lack of physical activity can contribute to poor cardiovascular health, which is essential for erectile function.
- Substance Use: Alcohol and recreational drugs can impair sexual function. Even certain medications can have side effects that affect libido and erectile ability.
Solutions for Erectile Dysfunction
1. Medical Evaluation: It is essential to consult a healthcare provider to rule out any underlying medical conditions. They may recommend blood tests to check hormone levels, blood sugar, and cholesterol levels.
2. Lifestyle Changes:
- Exercise: Regular physical activity can improve blood circulation and reduce stress, which may help alleviate symptoms of ED.
- Diet: A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can improve overall health and potentially enhance erectile function.
- Sleep Hygiene: Ensuring adequate sleep is vital for hormonal balance and overall well-being.
3. Psychological Support:
- Counseling: Speaking with a therapist or counselor can help address anxiety, depression, or relationship issues that may be contributing to erectile dysfunction.
- Sex Therapy: A specialized therapist can help you work through performance anxiety and develop healthier sexual attitudes.
4. Medications: If lifestyle changes and therapy do not yield results, medications such as phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) can be prescribed to help improve blood flow to the penis.
5. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises like Kegels can improve control over erections and ejaculation.
Addressing Your Specific Concerns
From your description, the involuntary tightening of the pelvic muscles during stimulation may indicate a heightened state of anxiety or a physical response to stress. This can lead to a cycle where the more you try to relax and enjoy the experience, the more tense your body becomes. It’s essential to focus on relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or mindfulness, to help alleviate this tension.
Additionally, if you have noticed a significant change in your sexual function over the past few months, it may be worth discussing this with a healthcare provider. They can help identify any underlying issues and recommend appropriate treatment options tailored to your specific situation.
In summary, erectile dysfunction can stem from a variety of physical and psychological causes. A comprehensive approach that includes medical evaluation, lifestyle changes, psychological support, and possibly medication can help restore sexual function and improve overall quality of life.
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