There is something in the vagina that could injure my boyfriend?
Hello doctor, I would like to ask you a very troubling question.
After each sexual encounter with my boyfriend, he has been experiencing cuts at the tip of his penis.
We do not use any toys, and I do not have any symptoms of pain or bleeding.
This has been ongoing for two months.
Two weeks ago, I visited a gynecologist who found a mild vaginal infection and prescribed a 6-day course of Fluomizin (10 mg Dequalinium Chloride Vaginal Tablets), stating that I would recover after completing the medication.
The doctor also performed a pelvic exam and did not find any sharp objects inside the vagina.
After finishing the medication, the vaginal odor was eliminated, and any discharge was clear and odorless.
This week, thinking I was better, I had intercourse with my boyfriend.
On the first night, there were no issues or cuts, but on the second night, he still had cuts at the tip of his penis.
He mentioned that he penetrated deeper on the second night, but he could not identify where the issue was, only that he felt something.
P.S.
We are adequately lubricated during intercourse, so dryness is not an issue.
I received my first dose of the 9-valent HPV vaccine on December 2, 2021, and the second dose on February 15, 2022.
Currently (March), I am in my fourth month of taking the birth control pill, brand Maxim (0.03 mg/2 mg).
Please help clarify the concerns regarding the cuts on my boyfriend.
Thank you very much.
Doujiang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/03/16
Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, based on your condition, it is not possible to make a determination.
It is recommended that both the gynecologist and urologist conduct separate evaluations for both partners.
Thank you! Wishing you peace and health.
Dr.
Chang.
Reply Date: 2022/03/16
More Info
It sounds like you and your partner are experiencing a frustrating and concerning issue after sexual intercourse. The fact that your partner is experiencing cuts or abrasions on the tip of his penis after sexual activity can be attributed to several factors, and it’s important to address them to ensure both of your comfort and health.
Firstly, it’s good to hear that you have already consulted with a gynecologist and received treatment for a mild vaginal infection. The medication you were prescribed, Fluomizin, is effective for treating certain types of vaginal infections, and it’s encouraging that you noticed an improvement in symptoms such as odor and discharge. However, the persistence of your partner's symptoms suggests that there may be other underlying issues at play.
Here are some potential reasons for the cuts your partner is experiencing:
1. Friction: Even with adequate lubrication, if there is a significant amount of friction during intercourse, it can lead to abrasions. This can happen if the thrusting is vigorous or if there is a lack of sufficient foreplay to ensure both partners are fully aroused. It’s important to communicate with your partner about comfort levels and adjust the intensity and depth of penetration accordingly.
2. Anatomical Factors: Sometimes, anatomical variations or conditions such as a tight foreskin (phimosis) or a frenulum that is too tight can lead to discomfort and injury during intercourse. If your partner has a tight foreskin, it might be worth discussing this with a urologist.
3. Infection or Inflammation: While your gynecologist did not find any sharp objects or significant issues during the examination, it’s possible that there could be residual inflammation or sensitivity in the vaginal area that could be causing discomfort during intercourse. If the infection was not fully resolved, it could lead to irritation.
4. Allergic Reactions: Sometimes, reactions to lubricants, soaps, or even condoms can cause irritation and lead to cuts. If you are using any products that could potentially cause an allergic reaction, consider switching to hypoallergenic options.
5. Sexual Position: Certain sexual positions may cause more friction or pressure on the penis, leading to cuts. Experimenting with different positions that allow for gentler penetration might help alleviate the issue.
Given that you mentioned your partner experienced cuts after deeper penetration, it may be beneficial to take a more cautious approach. Here are some recommendations:
- Communication: Talk openly with your partner about what feels comfortable and what does not. Adjusting the depth and speed of penetration can make a significant difference.
- Lubrication: Even if you feel adequately lubricated, consider using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant to reduce friction further. Sometimes, natural lubrication may not be sufficient, especially during deeper penetration.
- Gentle Approach: Start with gentler movements and gradually increase intensity as both of you feel comfortable. Pay attention to any signs of discomfort from either side.
- Follow-Up with Healthcare Providers: If the issue persists despite these adjustments, it may be wise for your partner to see a urologist for a thorough examination. They can assess for any anatomical issues or infections that may not have been previously identified.
- Consider a Break: If the cuts continue to occur, it might be best to take a break from penetrative sex until the issue is resolved. This can help prevent further injury and allow any existing irritation to heal.
In conclusion, while it’s great that you’ve taken steps to address the vaginal infection, the ongoing issue of cuts on your partner’s penis requires further exploration. Open communication, gentle approaches, and possibly consulting with specialists can help you both find a solution that ensures a comfortable and enjoyable sexual experience.
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