Semen lubricant
Hello, doctor.
Because I have obsessive-compulsive tendencies, after masturbating, I wash my hands multiple times with soap whenever semen gets on them, as I'm worried about any residue remaining.
Sometimes, I can still smell a bit of it.
Additionally, when I use lubricant for masturbation, my hands still feel slippery even after washing, which makes me feel like they aren't clean, so I keep washing them.
I would like to ask how many times I should wash my hands to ensure they are clean? Also, when I masturbate before showering and wash my penis, I often feel a little semen coming out, so I wash again.
How can I improve this situation?
Xing, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/05/19
Dr. Cai Zhuorong reply Urology
In general, semen is sterile and does not require repeated washing.
Reply Date: 2022/05/19
More Info
Managing hygiene concerns after masturbation is an important topic, especially for individuals who may have obsessive-compulsive tendencies regarding cleanliness. It’s essential to strike a balance between maintaining good hygiene and avoiding excessive washing that could lead to skin irritation or other issues.
First and foremost, it’s important to understand that washing your hands after masturbation is a good practice to prevent the spread of bacteria and maintain personal hygiene. However, the key is to do it effectively without overdoing it. Here are some tips to help you manage cleanliness concerns:
1. Use the Right Products: When washing your hands, use a mild, fragrance-free soap. Harsh soaps can strip the skin of its natural oils, leading to dryness and irritation. If you find that your hands feel slippery after washing, it may be due to the soap you are using. Opt for a soap that rinses cleanly and does not leave a residue.
2. Proper Washing Technique: To ensure that your hands are thoroughly cleaned, follow the recommended handwashing technique. Wet your hands, apply soap, and lather for at least 20 seconds, making sure to scrub all areas, including between your fingers and under your nails. Rinse well under running water. This should be sufficient to remove any residual lubricant or bodily fluids.
3. Limit the Number of Washes: Washing your hands once or twice after masturbation should be adequate. If you feel the need to wash again, assess whether it is due to a genuine concern about cleanliness or if it stems from anxiety. If it’s the latter, consider practicing mindfulness techniques to help manage those feelings.
4. Post-Masturbation Care: After masturbation, if you notice any residual fluid on your skin, gently wipe it away with a clean towel or tissue before washing your hands. This can help reduce the feeling of needing to wash excessively.
5. Shower Considerations: If you prefer to shower after masturbation, it’s perfectly fine to do so. When washing your genital area, use warm water and a gentle, unscented body wash. Avoid scrubbing too hard, as this can irritate the skin. If you notice any discomfort or irritation, consider consulting a healthcare professional for advice.
6. Addressing Anxiety: If your concerns about cleanliness are causing significant distress, it may be beneficial to speak with a mental health professional. They can help you develop coping strategies to manage obsessive thoughts about hygiene.
7. Skin Health: Frequent washing can lead to skin issues such as dryness or dermatitis. To combat this, consider applying a fragrance-free moisturizer to your hands and any other areas that may become dry after washing. This will help maintain your skin's barrier and prevent irritation.
In conclusion, maintaining hygiene after masturbation is important, but it’s equally crucial to avoid excessive washing that can lead to skin problems. By using the right products, employing proper washing techniques, and addressing any underlying anxiety, you can manage your hygiene concerns effectively. If you continue to experience discomfort or have persistent concerns, consulting a healthcare provider is always a good step to ensure your health and well-being.
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