Nocturnal Emissions: Should You Hold Back? - Urology

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Nocturnal emission without ejaculation?


Hello, doctor.
Sometimes when I’m sleeping at night, I feel like I have a wet dream, but when I wake up, I instinctively hold back from ejaculating.
This doesn’t happen every time.
Is there any problem with instinctively holding back from ejaculation? I read online that holding back ejaculation might cause retrograde ejaculation.
Could this happen in my case? Should I masturbate to release the semen that I just held back?

Jay, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/08/01

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: It will remain in the seminal vesicles and will not have any impact.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2022/08/01

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Nocturnal emissions, commonly referred to as "wet dreams," are a natural physiological occurrence, especially in males. They typically happen during sleep and are often accompanied by erotic dreams. The question of whether one should hold back during these experiences is a common concern, particularly regarding the potential for issues such as retrograde ejaculation or other complications.

When you experience a nocturnal emission, your body is essentially responding to a natural biological process. If you wake up during this process and consciously decide to hold back from ejaculation, it is unlikely to cause any significant harm. However, there are a few considerations to keep in mind.

1. Retrograde Ejaculation: This is a condition where semen enters the bladder instead of exiting through the penis during ejaculation. While it is a possibility if you consistently hold back during ejaculation, it is not a direct result of simply experiencing nocturnal emissions. Retrograde ejaculation can occur due to various factors, including certain medications, surgeries, or nerve damage. If you are healthy and have no underlying medical conditions, the likelihood of experiencing retrograde ejaculation simply from holding back during a nocturnal emission is low.

2. Physical Discomfort: Holding back ejaculation can sometimes lead to discomfort or a feeling of fullness in the genital area. This is because the body is still producing semen, and if it is not expelled, it can create a sense of pressure. If you find that this discomfort is frequent or bothersome, it may be beneficial to relieve yourself through masturbation or ejaculation when you feel comfortable doing so.

3. Psychological Factors: The act of holding back during a nocturnal emission may also have psychological implications. If you feel anxious or guilty about the experience, it could lead to stress or anxiety surrounding sexual function. It’s essential to understand that nocturnal emissions are a normal part of sexual health and do not indicate any dysfunction or abnormality.

4. Frequency and Health: If you find that nocturnal emissions are happening frequently and causing concern, it may be worth discussing with a healthcare provider. They can help assess whether there are any underlying issues contributing to the frequency of these emissions or any related concerns.

In summary, while it is generally safe to hold back during a nocturnal emission, it is essential to listen to your body. If you experience discomfort or have concerns about your sexual health, consider relieving yourself when appropriate. Remember that nocturnal emissions are a normal part of male physiology, and there is no need for shame or anxiety surrounding them. If you have ongoing concerns or experience significant changes in your sexual health, consulting a healthcare professional is always a good idea. They can provide personalized advice and reassurance based on your specific situation.

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