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The possibility of sexually transmitted infections (STIs)?


Hello Doctor: My boyfriend had an attempt at sexual intercourse with his ex-girlfriend during their relationship.
He wore a condom, but his penis did not achieve an erection.
The female partner touched his genital area with her hands but did not insert anything into her vagina.
Here are my questions: 1.
After learning about his ex-girlfriend's past sexual history, my boyfriend, although he did not have complete sexual intercourse, was unsure if he had come into contact with her bodily fluids.
He performed an HIV test, which was negative.
A year later, he tested again, and the result was still negative.
Considering the window period and latency period of the virus, can we be assured that my boyfriend does not have any sexually transmitted infections (STIs)? 2.
Even though my boyfriend has no visible lesions on his genitals or body, is it still possible for him to have any STIs? (It has been over a year and a half since the incident.) 3.
If my boyfriend were unfortunately to have HIV and transmitted it to me, should I wash my personal clothing separately from my family’s to reduce the risk of transmission? Can we share the washing machine with others? Thank you for your response, Doctor!

lin, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/09/07

Dr. Chen Jiansheng reply Urology


It is possible.

Reply Date: 2022/09/07

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When it comes to understanding the risks associated with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV, it’s essential to consider several factors, including the nature of the sexual activity, testing protocols, and the biology of the viruses involved. Let’s address your questions one by one.

1. Testing and Window Periods: Your boyfriend has undergone HIV testing, with negative results both immediately after the incident and again a year later. Generally, the HIV window period—the time after infection during which the virus may not be detectable—can vary depending on the type of test used. For most standard tests, including the HIV Ag/Ab combo test, the window period is about 3 months. However, since your boyfriend tested negative at both the 1-month and 1-year marks, it is highly unlikely that he has HIV. The same applies to other STDs; if he has been tested for common STDs and received negative results, it is reasonable to conclude that he is not infected, especially given the time elapsed since the incident.

2. Asymptomatic Infections: While it is true that many STDs can be asymptomatic, the likelihood of having an undetected infection decreases significantly with negative test results over an extended period, especially if no symptoms have manifested. If your boyfriend has no visible signs of infection and has consistently tested negative, the risk of him having an STD is low. However, it is always advisable to maintain regular screenings, especially if there are new sexual partners or if either partner has had potential exposure to STDs.

3. Transmission Risks and Laundry Practices: Regarding your concern about the potential transmission of HIV through clothing or shared laundry, it is important to note that HIV is not transmitted through casual contact, including sharing laundry or using the same washing machine. The virus does not survive long outside the human body, and it cannot be spread through clothing or surfaces. Therefore, there is no need to separate laundry or avoid using shared facilities. However, it is always a good practice to maintain good hygiene and wash clothes regularly.

In summary, based on the information provided, your boyfriend appears to be at low risk for having any STDs, including HIV, especially given the negative test results and the time elapsed since the potential exposure. Regular testing and open communication between partners about sexual health are crucial in maintaining safety and peace of mind. If either of you has further concerns or experiences any symptoms, consulting a healthcare provider for additional testing and advice is always a prudent step.

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