Fertility issues
Hello Doctor,
1.
I have been married for almost a year, but we have not conceived yet.
I masturbate 1-2 times a day and have researched some information online, suspecting that my sperm may not be mature enough, which could be the reason for not getting pregnant.
2.
Should I abstain for 90 days to allow my sperm to mature, which might improve our chances of conception?
3.
If we haven't had intercourse for a long time, since my wife and I only have sex 1-3 times a month, should I ejaculate beforehand to clear out older sperm? Would this improve the quality of the sperm during intercourse?
Mr. Y, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/10/12
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: To address your concern, you can understand the situation by having a sperm analysis at the hospital.
It is recommended to abstain for about 3 days prior to the test.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2022/10/12
More Info
Fertility concerns can be quite stressful, especially for newlyweds trying to conceive. It's important to understand that several factors can influence sperm health and overall fertility. Let's address your questions one by one.
1. Masturbation and Sperm Maturity: Regular masturbation does not inherently prevent sperm from maturing or negatively affect fertility. Sperm production is a continuous process, and the body is capable of producing millions of sperm daily. However, frequent ejaculation, whether through masturbation or sexual intercourse, can temporarily reduce the sperm count in a single ejaculation. This is because the body needs time to replenish sperm reserves. If you are concerned about sperm maturity, it’s essential to note that sperm typically takes about 64 to 72 days to mature. Therefore, if you are actively trying to conceive, it might be beneficial to moderate the frequency of ejaculation to allow for higher sperm counts during intercourse.
2. Abstinence for Sperm Quality: The idea of abstaining for a certain period to improve sperm quality is based on the understanding that sperm can become less viable over time if not ejaculated. A common recommendation is to abstain for 2 to 5 days before trying to conceive, as this can help optimize sperm count and motility. However, abstaining for too long (beyond 7 days) can lead to older sperm being released, which may not be as viable. Therefore, a balanced approach is key—moderate abstinence can help ensure that the sperm you are using for conception are fresh and healthy.
3. Frequency of Intercourse: If you and your wife are only having intercourse 1-3 times a month, it may be beneficial to increase this frequency, especially during the woman’s fertile window (the days leading up to and including ovulation). Regular intercourse during this time maximizes the chances of conception. If you feel that you need to "clear out" older sperm before intercourse, it’s generally not necessary. The body continuously produces new sperm, and as long as you are not experiencing issues with ejaculation or sperm quality, the sperm produced shortly before intercourse should be viable.
In addition to these considerations, it’s essential to maintain a healthy lifestyle to support sperm health. This includes:
- Diet: A balanced diet rich in antioxidants, vitamins (especially Vitamin C and E), and minerals (like zinc) can improve sperm quality.
- Hydration: Staying well-hydrated is crucial for overall health, including reproductive health.
- Avoiding Toxins: Limiting exposure to environmental toxins, such as pesticides and heavy metals, can also help improve sperm quality.
- Stress Management: High stress levels can negatively impact hormone levels and sperm production, so finding effective ways to manage stress is important.
- Regular Exercise: Moderate physical activity can enhance overall health and improve hormonal balance.
If you have been trying to conceive for a year without success, it may also be wise to consult a fertility specialist. They can conduct comprehensive evaluations for both partners to identify any underlying issues that may be affecting fertility. Remember, fertility is a complex interplay of factors, and seeking professional guidance can provide clarity and direction.
In summary, while your concerns about sperm health and frequency of ejaculation are valid, there are many factors at play in fertility. Moderating masturbation, timing intercourse around ovulation, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle can all contribute positively to your chances of conception. If you continue to have concerns, don't hesitate to seek medical advice for a more personalized approach.
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