the Risks of Kissing: Urological Concerns and STDs - Urology

Share to:

About kissing?


Hello, doctor.
I am a male.
I previously visited a sex worker and kissed her.
Due to my lack of skill, I accidentally hurt her mouth with my teeth at the beginning of the kiss.
I forgot to check if I had any cuts in my mouth at that time.
If I had caused her any oral injuries, I am unaware of what diseases she might carry.
What diseases could I potentially contract? Any information would be appreciated.
Thank you.

Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/10/20

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: Any infection that can be transmitted through bodily fluids, including blood, is possible.
However, the risk is lower if there are no open wounds compared to having them.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2022/10/20

More Info


When it comes to understanding the risks associated with kissing, particularly in the context of potential exposure to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), it is crucial to consider several factors, including the nature of the contact, the presence of any oral injuries, and the health status of both partners.

Kissing, especially deep or prolonged kissing, can pose a risk for the transmission of certain infections. Saliva can carry pathogens, and if either partner has an active infection, there is a potential risk of transmission. Common STDs that can be transmitted through kissing include herpes simplex virus (HSV), particularly HSV-1, which is often responsible for cold sores, and cytomegalovirus (CMV). While the risk of transmitting other STDs such as HIV through kissing is extremely low, it is not entirely absent if there are open sores or bleeding gums involved.

In your specific situation, where you accidentally injured the other person's mouth during kissing, there are a few considerations to keep in mind:
1. Presence of Open Sores: If you had any cuts or sores in your mouth, and if the other person had any oral injuries, the risk of transmission of infections increases. For instance, if you had a herpes sore, and the other person had a cut in their mouth, the virus could potentially be transmitted.

2. Health Status of the Other Person: If the woman you kissed had any STDs, the risk of transmission would depend on the type of infection. For example, if she had an active herpes infection, there is a higher risk of transmission through direct contact with her saliva or oral mucosa.

3. Symptoms to Watch For: After potential exposure to STDs, it is essential to monitor for any symptoms that may arise. Symptoms of STDs can vary widely but may include sores or blisters in the mouth, unusual discharge, pain during urination, or flu-like symptoms. If you experience any of these symptoms, it is advisable to seek medical attention promptly.

4. Testing and Prevention: If you are concerned about potential exposure to STDs, it is wise to get tested. Many STDs have a window period during which they may not be detectable, so follow-up testing may be necessary. For example, testing for HIV is typically recommended at 10 days, but more conclusive results are usually obtained at three months. Regular screenings are an essential part of sexual health, especially if you engage in high-risk behaviors.

5. Safe Practices: To minimize risks in the future, consider practicing safer sex techniques, such as using barriers (like dental dams) during oral sex and being aware of your partner's health status. Open communication about sexual health with partners is vital.

In conclusion, while kissing can carry some risks for STD transmission, the likelihood varies based on several factors. If you have concerns about potential exposure, it is best to consult with a healthcare provider who can offer personalized advice and testing options. Taking proactive steps towards understanding and managing sexual health can significantly reduce risks and promote overall well-being.

Similar Q&A

Understanding Risks of Kissing and Oral Contact: A Urology Perspective

Yesterday, I went out for tea. Doctor, I used a condom during oral and sexual intercourse, but I had unprotected contact when I was rejected and kissed (I have a sore in my mouth). My lips touched, but my tongue did not make contact; however, my tongue was extended but blocked by...


Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: There was contact with bodily fluids, but a condom was used during intercourse → Generally considered low to moderate risk. No risk activities include masturbation; low risk activities include mutual masturbation, light kissing, mutual rubbing, and condom-protected sexual ...

[Read More] Understanding Risks of Kissing and Oral Contact: A Urology Perspective


Concerns About Oral Sex: Unpleasant Odors and STD Risks

Hello, doctor. Recently, I performed oral sex on a male partner, and when he took off his pants, there was a very unpleasant odor. However, the area outside the glans had a scent of body wash. After performing oral sex, I also swallowed. I'm a bit worried about whether I cou...


Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Many sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are transmitted through sexual contact and the exchange of bodily fluids, which include blood, semen, and vaginal secretions. Therefore, sexual activities that do not involve the exchange of bodily fluids are considered safe. The...

[Read More] Concerns About Oral Sex: Unpleasant Odors and STD Risks


Understanding STD Risks from Kissing and Genital Contact

Hello, a few days ago I had a deep kiss with a stranger and he touched my genitals (without direct contact with the glans). I did not see any bodily fluids, but I am unsure if he touched his own genitals before touching mine. I immediately cleaned my genitals with soap and water....


Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Deep kissing involves the exchange of bodily fluids. Therefore, there is a possibility of transmission, depending on whether the partner has a sexually transmitted infection. Wishing you good health.

[Read More] Understanding STD Risks from Kissing and Genital Contact


Concerns About STDs After Recent Encounters with Strangers

Hello, doctor. Recently, I engaged in unprotected oral sex, kissing, French kissing, unprotected mutual masturbation, and unprotected sharing of a sex toy (he ejaculated into the toy and then used it on me without cleaning it). I do not have any symptoms, but I am unsure of the o...


Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: The symptoms of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) often include rashes, blisters, protrusions, urethral discharge, and painful urination. Itching is not absent but is less common. You are at moderate risk and should get tested for STIs at least every three months. -...

[Read More] Concerns About STDs After Recent Encounters with Strangers


Related FAQ

Risk Of Sexually Transmitted Infections

(Urology)

Oral Sex

(Urology)

Sexual Activity

(Urology)

Syphilis

(Urology)

Std Transmission

(Urology)

Homosexual

(Urology)

Gonorrhea

(Urology)

Herpes

(Urology)

Sexual Function

(Urology)

Sexual Climax

(Urology)