Please help me?
I would like to ask why I unconsciously go into a trance after drinking alcohol, regardless of whether I am happy or sad.
I don't remember what I did, and after coming to, I feel very regretful and confused about my actions.
It makes me really sad to think about why I behave this way.
There are so many people around, yet it always seems to be me who goes into a trance.
I wish I could find a place to hide; I really dislike this version of myself.
Xiao Zhang, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/11/02
Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry
Hello everyone: Some people have a constitution that reacts this way; it is advisable to stop drinking alcohol.
Dr.
Wu Enliang
Reply Date: 2022/11/02
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Your situation raises important concerns about the relationship between alcohol consumption and mental health. The phenomenon you describe, where you engage in behaviors that you cannot recall after drinking, is often associated with alcohol-induced blackouts or altered states of consciousness. This can be particularly distressing, especially when it leads to actions that you later regret.
Alcohol affects the brain in various ways, primarily by acting as a central nervous system depressant. It alters neurotransmitter levels, particularly gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA) and glutamate, which can impair cognitive functions and emotional regulation. When consumed in excess, alcohol can lead to a state where the brain's ability to form memories is compromised, resulting in blackouts. During these episodes, individuals may engage in behaviors that are out of character or that they would not normally do when sober.
The feelings of regret and shame you experience afterward are common among individuals who struggle with alcohol use. These feelings can contribute to a cycle of negative emotions, leading to further drinking as a means of coping with the distress. This cycle can be particularly difficult to break, especially if there are underlying mental health issues such as anxiety or depression.
It's crucial to understand that this behavior is not a reflection of your character but rather a consequence of how alcohol interacts with your brain and body. Many people who experience similar issues find it helpful to seek professional support. A mental health professional can provide a safe space to explore these feelings and behaviors, helping you to understand the underlying causes and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
Here are some steps you can take to address this issue:
1. Seek Professional Help: Consider talking to a mental health professional who specializes in substance use disorders. They can help you understand your relationship with alcohol and provide strategies to manage your behavior.
2. Reflect on Triggers: Try to identify what triggers your drinking. Is it social pressure, stress, or emotional distress? Understanding these triggers can help you develop alternative coping strategies.
3. Explore Alternative Activities: When you feel the urge to drink, consider engaging in other activities that can provide a sense of fulfillment or relaxation, such as exercise, hobbies, or spending time with supportive friends.
4. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help you manage anxiety and improve your emotional regulation. These practices can also help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings, reducing the likelihood of impulsive drinking.
5. Establish Boundaries: If certain social situations lead to excessive drinking, it may be helpful to set boundaries for yourself. This could mean avoiding specific gatherings or limiting your alcohol intake.
6. Consider Support Groups: Many individuals find support in groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or other recovery programs. These groups provide a community of individuals who understand your struggles and can offer encouragement and accountability.
7. Educate Yourself: Understanding the effects of alcohol on your body and mind can empower you to make informed decisions about your drinking. Knowledge can be a powerful tool in changing behavior.
8. Communicate with Loved Ones: If you feel comfortable, share your experiences with trusted friends or family members. Their support can be invaluable as you work through these challenges.
In conclusion, while the behaviors you describe can be distressing, they are not uncommon among individuals who consume alcohol. By seeking help and exploring healthier coping mechanisms, you can work towards a more positive relationship with alcohol and improve your overall mental health. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to support you.
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