The semen inside the condom is missing?
Hello, could you please diagnose my situation? Last night, I had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend, and we used a condom throughout the entire act.
My boyfriend mentioned that he felt a little ejaculation at the beginning but managed to hold back.
After that, we continued for about a minute before he finished.
Despite the intensity, he said he didn't feel like he ejaculated much.
However, when we turned on the lights, we noticed that there was no fluid inside the condom.
I'm unsure if he ejaculated a little and then became soft or if he didn't ejaculate at all.
The sheets were wet and sticky, and I'm not sure if it was my discharge or if his semen leaked outside.
Additionally, I was in my safe period, and after the act, I filled the condom with water, and it showed no signs of breakage.
I would like to ask if, with the condom on, any semen could have entered the vagina, and what is the likelihood of pregnancy?
Qi, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/11/06
Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, you should not be pregnant.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2022/11/06
More Info
When it comes to concerns about the risk of pregnancy after engaging in sexual intercourse while using a condom, there are several factors to consider. Based on your description, it sounds like you and your boyfriend used a condom throughout the encounter, which is a key factor in preventing pregnancy. However, there are nuances to your situation that warrant further discussion.
First, it's important to understand how condoms work. When used correctly, condoms are highly effective at preventing both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). The effectiveness of condoms is estimated to be around 98% with perfect use, meaning that only about 2 out of 100 women will become pregnant in a year if their partners use condoms consistently and correctly. However, typical use, which accounts for human error, brings this effectiveness down to about 85%.
In your case, you mentioned that your boyfriend felt he had a small ejaculation before he was able to fully ejaculate, and you observed that there was no visible semen in the condom afterward. This raises a few important points:
1. Pre-ejaculate Fluid: It’s possible that pre-ejaculate fluid (also known as pre-cum) was released before your boyfriend fully ejaculated. This fluid can contain sperm, although typically in smaller quantities than ejaculate. If the condom was intact and there were no visible leaks, the risk of pregnancy from pre-ejaculate is significantly reduced, but not entirely eliminated.
2. Condom Integrity: You mentioned that you checked the condom afterward and found no holes or tears, which is a good sign. If the condom was used properly and did not break, it should have provided a barrier to sperm entering the vagina.
3. Vaginal Secretions: The wetness you observed on the sheets could be a combination of vaginal secretions and possibly some pre-ejaculate fluid. It’s not uncommon for there to be some moisture during sexual activity, which can sometimes be mistaken for semen.
4. Timing in the Menstrual Cycle: You indicated that you were in your "safe period," which suggests that you were not in your fertile window. Understanding your menstrual cycle is crucial for assessing pregnancy risk. If you were indeed in a non-fertile phase, the likelihood of conception decreases significantly.
5. Pregnancy Probability: Given that you used a condom correctly, it is unlikely that sperm would have entered the vagina if the condom remained intact. The chances of pregnancy in this scenario are low, especially considering the timing in your menstrual cycle. However, if you are still concerned, you might consider taking a home pregnancy test if your period is late.
In conclusion, while there is always a small risk of pregnancy with any sexual activity, the combination of using a condom correctly and being in a non-fertile phase of your cycle significantly reduces that risk. If you have further concerns or experience any unusual symptoms, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare provider for personalized advice and reassurance.
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