Masturbation of the penis?
Can I ask if masturbating every two days, and experiencing longer duration in the morning but ejaculating quickly, within two to three minutes, after a day of activities in the evening, indicates a problem with premature ejaculation? I typically stroke my penis at a rate of two to three times per second; is this level of stimulation considered inadequate?
Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/11/08
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: DIY and sexual activity are different and cannot be objectively compared; as long as you don't get hurt, it should be safe.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2022/11/08
More Info
Understanding ejaculation timing can be a complex issue, as it varies significantly among individuals. Based on your description, it seems that you are concerned about the duration of your ejaculation during different times of the day and whether this indicates a problem such as premature ejaculation (PE).
Premature ejaculation is typically defined as ejaculation that occurs with minimal sexual stimulation and before the individual wishes it to happen, often within one minute of penetration. However, it is important to note that the definition of PE can vary, and what is considered "normal" can differ from person to person. Factors such as anxiety, fatigue, and overall physical condition can influence sexual performance and ejaculation timing.
In your case, you mentioned that when you masturbate in the morning, you experience more prolonged sessions compared to the evening, where you ejaculate within two to three minutes. This variation is not uncommon and can be attributed to several factors:
1. Physical and Mental State: In the morning, you may be more rested and less stressed, which can contribute to better sexual performance. Conversely, after a long day of activities, fatigue and mental exhaustion can lead to quicker ejaculation.
2. Stimulation Techniques: You mentioned that you stimulate your penis at a rate of two to three times per second. While this may seem fast, the effectiveness of stimulation can vary based on individual sensitivity. Some individuals may find that slower, more deliberate strokes can enhance their experience and prolong ejaculation.
3. Frequency of Masturbation: Masturbating every two days is generally considered a normal frequency. However, if you find that your performance varies significantly based on the time of day or your physical condition, it might be worth considering how your body responds to different levels of arousal and stimulation.
4. Anxiety and Performance Pressure: Sometimes, the pressure to perform or concerns about timing can lead to anxiety, which can exacerbate the situation. If you are worried about premature ejaculation, it may be helpful to practice relaxation techniques or mindfulness during sexual activities to reduce performance anxiety.
If you are still concerned about whether your ejaculation timing falls into the category of premature ejaculation, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare professional or a urologist. They can provide a more personalized assessment based on your specific situation and may suggest techniques or therapies to help manage any concerns you may have.
In summary, based on the information you provided, it does not appear that you are experiencing premature ejaculation, especially since your performance varies based on time and physical condition. However, if you continue to have concerns or if this issue affects your sexual satisfaction or relationships, seeking professional advice can provide clarity and reassurance. Remember that sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and addressing any concerns with a qualified professional can lead to better understanding and management of your sexual health.
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