Can You Get Pregnant from Dry Humping and Safe Sex Practices?

Can I get pregnant?

Hello, doctor! My menstrual cycle is 29-32 days.
My last period was from January 23 to January 29.
On February 2, I had some dry humping with my boyfriend through our underwear; he was erect but did not ejaculate.
On February 3, we engaged in fingering and intercourse, but the penetration was only about the length of the glans, and we also had some external rubbing with a condom.
There was no ejaculation, and the condom was intact.
On February 4, my boyfriend had morning erections, and some fluid leaked out, but I'm not sure what it was.
Since we were very close, his penis was only about 5-10 centimeters away from my genital area.
There was no direct rubbing or touching, but my boyfriend did caress me, and I'm unsure if he touched his penis before touching my genital area.
After all these activities, we both cleaned the genital area.
I am currently around my ovulation period, and I feel some bloating, but the discharge feels similar to what I usually experience, just a bit more moist.
I would like to know if there is a chance of pregnancy in this situation.

Chen, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/02/07

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, the chances of pregnancy should be low.
If you are still concerned, you can take emergency contraception just in case.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2023/02/07

More Info

When it comes to the question of whether you can get pregnant from dry humping and safe sex practices, it's essential to understand the mechanics of conception and the risks associated with various sexual activities.

Firstly, dry humping, which involves rubbing against each other while fully clothed, typically poses a low risk for pregnancy. This is because there is no direct contact between the genitalia, and the likelihood of sperm being transferred through clothing is minimal. However, if there is any direct contact between the penis and the vulva, even if there is no ejaculation, there is a small chance of pregnancy due to pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum), which can contain sperm. In your case, since you mentioned that there was no direct contact and no ejaculation, the risk of pregnancy from dry humping is extremely low.

Regarding the sexual activities you described on February 3rd, where you engaged in finger play and intercourse with a condom, it is important to note that using a condom significantly reduces the risk of pregnancy. Condoms are about 98% effective when used correctly, which means that the failure rate is about 2%. You mentioned that the condom was intact throughout the process, which further decreases the likelihood of sperm entering the vagina. Additionally, the fact that there was no ejaculation during intercourse also lowers the risk of pregnancy.

You also expressed concern about the possibility of sperm being transferred if your boyfriend touched his penis before touching you. While this could theoretically introduce sperm to the vaginal area, the chances of this leading to pregnancy are still quite low, especially if he did not ejaculate. The distance you described (5-10 cm) without direct contact also minimizes the risk.

As for the symptoms you are experiencing, such as bloating and changes in discharge, these can be attributed to various factors, including hormonal changes associated with your menstrual cycle, particularly around ovulation. It is common for women to experience changes in their bodies during this time, which can sometimes lead to confusion about potential pregnancy.

In summary, based on the activities you described, the likelihood of pregnancy is very low. However, if you are concerned about the possibility of pregnancy or if your menstrual cycle is delayed, it would be advisable to take a home pregnancy test for peace of mind. Additionally, if you are looking for more reliable contraception methods, consider discussing options such as hormonal birth control, which can provide more consistent protection against unintended pregnancy.

In conclusion, while the activities you described carry a minimal risk of pregnancy, it is always wise to be informed about safe sex practices and contraception to ensure that you are protected according to your needs and circumstances. If you have further questions or concerns, consulting with a healthcare provider can provide personalized advice and support.

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