Seeking Help for Hemorrhoids: How to Share Your Concerns Effectively - Surgery

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Hemorrhoids distress?


Hello Dr.
Ke, I would like to ask how I can show you photos of my hemorrhoids, as I have been unable to find a place to upload them.
I'm quite frustrated because I don't know the current condition of my hemorrhoids, and I lack the courage to consider a complete surgical removal.
The doctor I consulted didn't provide much explanation or advice; he simply said that if I didn't like their presence, I could have them completely removed.
However, I hope there is a possibility for them to shrink one day.
After all, there are too many uncertainties after surgery, and I would regret it if things don't go well.
I hope you can help me.

TT, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/03/02

Dr. Ke Fangxu reply Surgery


Many patients use Google Drive to share images; you might want to consider whether surgery is necessary.
I generally recommend surgical intervention in three specific situations: significant bleeding leading to anemia, acute episodes of severe pain, and hemorrhoidal prolapse that affects daily activities.
In these cases, the cost-effectiveness of surgery is better.
Otherwise, if the symptoms are not severe, undergoing a surgery with many uncertainties may not be worthwhile.
Please discuss the indications for surgery thoroughly with your physician before making a decision.

Reply Date: 2023/03/02

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When it comes to seeking help for hemorrhoids, it's important to approach the situation with both sensitivity and clarity. Hemorrhoids can be a source of discomfort and embarrassment for many individuals, and discussing them openly can often feel daunting. Here are some steps you can take to effectively share your concerns with a healthcare provider, such as Dr. Ke, and seek the help you need.


1. Prepare Your Information
Before reaching out to your doctor, gather as much information as possible about your condition. This includes:
- Symptoms: Note any symptoms you are experiencing, such as pain, bleeding, itching, or discomfort. Be specific about when these symptoms occur and their severity.

- Duration: How long have you been experiencing these symptoms? Have they worsened over time?
- Previous Treatments: Document any treatments you have tried, including over-the-counter medications, dietary changes, or home remedies. Mention what has or hasn’t worked for you.


2. Communicate Clearly
When you contact your doctor, whether through email, a patient portal, or during a consultation, be clear and concise. Here’s an example of how you might phrase your concerns:
“Dear Dr. Ke,
I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out because I have been experiencing persistent symptoms related to hemorrhoids, including [describe your symptoms]. I am concerned about the condition and would like to discuss potential treatment options. I have attached a photo of the affected area for your review, as I believe it may help in assessing my situation. Thank you for your attention to this matter.”

3. Use Secure Channels
If you wish to share photos of your condition, ensure you do so through secure and appropriate channels. Many healthcare providers have patient portals that allow for secure messaging and file uploads. If this option is not available, ask your doctor’s office how they prefer to receive such information. Avoid sharing sensitive health information through unsecured methods, such as regular email or social media.


4. Express Your Concerns About Surgery
It’s understandable to have reservations about surgical options, especially given the potential complications and recovery time. When discussing this with your doctor, express your concerns clearly. You might say:
“I am hesitant about the surgical option due to the potential risks and recovery time. I would prefer to explore non-surgical treatments first, if possible. Are there any lifestyle changes, medications, or other therapies that could help reduce my symptoms?”

5. Ask Questions
Don’t hesitate to ask your doctor questions about your condition and treatment options. Some questions you might consider include:
- What are the non-surgical treatment options available for my condition?
- How effective are these treatments, and what can I expect in terms of results?
- Are there lifestyle changes I can make to alleviate my symptoms?
- What are the risks and benefits of the surgical procedure you mentioned?

6. Follow-Up
After your initial consultation, make sure to follow up on any recommendations your doctor provides. If you start a new treatment, keep track of your symptoms and report back to your doctor about your progress or any side effects you experience.


Conclusion
Seeking help for hemorrhoids can be uncomfortable, but it’s crucial for your health and well-being. By preparing your information, communicating clearly, and asking the right questions, you can effectively share your concerns with your healthcare provider. Remember, you deserve to receive comprehensive care and support as you navigate this condition. Don’t hesitate to advocate for yourself and explore all available options for relief.

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