Pain and Bleeding During Intercourse: When to Seek Help - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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Bleeding during sexual intercourse?


Hello doctor, I would like to ask about my situation.
My boyfriend and I have sexual intercourse infrequently, about once every one or two months.
However, after a long interval, I still experience pain during penetration, with a tearing sensation.
There is also bleeding, but it only occurs at that moment on the condom and the sheets, and it does not continue to flow from the vagina afterward.
If we have intercourse again a few days later, there is no bleeding.
I would like to know if this situation is caused by tearing due to the long gap between intercourse.
Do I need to see a doctor for an examination? Thank you.

Xiao Wen, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/06/05

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Hello, it may be related to not having sexual intercourse for a long time.
Just observe it.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2023/06/05

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Experiencing pain and bleeding during intercourse can be concerning, and it's important to understand the potential causes and when to seek medical help. Based on your description, it sounds like you are experiencing discomfort and occasional bleeding during sexual activity, which can be attributed to several factors.

Firstly, the pain you describe as a "tearing" sensation could be related to insufficient lubrication or vaginal atrophy, especially if there is a significant gap between sexual encounters. When there is infrequent sexual activity, the vaginal tissues may not be as elastic or well-lubricated, leading to discomfort during penetration. This can result in minor tears in the vaginal lining, which may cause bleeding. It’s also possible that the use of condoms could contribute to this sensation if there is friction involved.

Another potential cause for pain and bleeding could be related to underlying medical conditions such as vaginitis, cervicitis, or even more serious conditions like endometriosis or fibroids. These conditions can cause inflammation or changes in the vaginal or cervical tissue, leading to pain during intercourse and bleeding.

Given that you mentioned the bleeding is only present during intercourse and does not continue afterward, it is less likely to be a sign of a serious condition, but it is still essential to monitor your symptoms. If the pain persists, worsens, or if you start experiencing other symptoms such as unusual discharge, persistent bleeding, or changes in your menstrual cycle, it would be advisable to seek medical attention.

In terms of when to see a doctor, here are some guidelines:
1. Persistent Pain: If the pain during intercourse continues despite attempts to use lubrication or if it becomes more severe.

2. Bleeding: If you experience bleeding that is heavier than spotting or if it occurs outside of sexual activity.

3. Other Symptoms: If you notice any unusual discharge, odor, or other symptoms such as fever or abdominal pain.

A healthcare provider can perform a thorough examination, which may include a pelvic exam, to determine the cause of your symptoms. They may also recommend tests such as a Pap smear or cultures to rule out infections or other conditions.

In the meantime, consider using water-based lubricants to reduce friction during intercourse, and communicate openly with your partner about your comfort levels. It’s important to prioritize your comfort and well-being during sexual activity.

In summary, while occasional pain and minor bleeding during intercourse can be common, especially with infrequent sexual activity, it is essential to pay attention to your body. If your symptoms persist or worsen, seeking medical advice is the best course of action to ensure your health and peace of mind.

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