Struggling with Urination: A Young Adult's Journey with Urological Issues - Urology

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Can only sit while using the toilet?


Hello, I am Hsu Shuwei, a 23-year-old student with a physical and mental disability.
Occasionally, I engage in masturbation.
In early April, I masturbated and managed to hold back ejaculation until the morning.
Later, I realized this was not right and masturbated again.
The next morning, I experienced a stinging sensation at the urethral opening while urinating.
At that time, I could still urinate normally while standing, but after a day, my lower body felt warm.
I visited a doctor and took medication, but since then, I have been unable to use the restroom normally like before.
When I drink water as I used to, I either struggle to stand or have to sit down.
My mother taught me to drink a whole cup of 350cc of water in one go.
Initially, I could still urinate while standing, but my urethra's response couldn't keep up.
Later, I went to Renai Hospital in Shulin, where the doctor told me that I have simple urethral constriction and slow nerve conduction.
He prescribed me medications including Lubi Jing, Zhi Niao Tong, and You Lie Fu.
However, now, two months later, I used to be able to urinate while standing sometimes, but gradually I can only urinate while sitting.
I can't even urinate while standing anymore.
What should I do? My mother insists that I should urinate while standing, and I just stopped taking the medication today.

Shu Wei, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/06/12

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: Please visit a urology department at a major hospital for an examination.
Currently, you should stay hydrated, maintain a light diet, and engage in gentle exercise.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2023/06/12

More Info


It sounds like you are experiencing significant challenges with urination, which can be distressing and frustrating. Your situation involves a combination of physical and possibly psychological factors that may be contributing to your urinary difficulties. Let's break down your concerns and explore potential avenues for improvement.


Understanding Your Symptoms
From your description, it appears that you have been experiencing urinary issues following an incident related to masturbation, which has led to discomfort and changes in your urination patterns. The pain you felt at the urethral opening and the subsequent difficulty in urination could be indicative of a few underlying issues, such as:
1. Urethral Irritation or Infection: The initial pain could suggest irritation or even a urinary tract infection (UTI), which can occur after activities that may introduce bacteria into the urethra.

2. Nerve Function: You mentioned that your doctor noted issues with nerve conduction and urethral contraction. This could mean that the nerves controlling your bladder and urethra are not functioning optimally, leading to difficulties in urination.

3. Psychological Factors: Anxiety or stress related to urination can also play a significant role. If you are feeling anxious about urinating, it may exacerbate the physical symptoms you are experiencing.


Recommendations for Management
1. Follow-Up with a Urologist: It is crucial to maintain regular follow-ups with a urologist. They can conduct further evaluations, such as urodynamic studies, to assess how well your bladder and urethra are functioning. This can provide insights into whether there are any structural or functional issues that need to be addressed.

2. Medication Review: Since you have recently stopped taking medication, it’s important to discuss this with your doctor. Some medications can help relax the bladder or improve nerve function, and your doctor may suggest alternatives if the current ones are not effective.

3. Hydration and Voiding Techniques: Staying well-hydrated is essential, but the method of drinking water can also impact urination. Instead of forcing yourself to drink a large amount at once, try to drink smaller amounts throughout the day. This can help your bladder adjust and may make it easier to urinate.

4. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Engaging in pelvic floor exercises, such as Kegel exercises, can strengthen the muscles involved in urination. This may help improve your ability to control urination and reduce any discomfort.

5. Relaxation Techniques: If anxiety is contributing to your urinary issues, consider incorporating relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness practices. These can help reduce stress and may improve your overall urinary function.

6. Behavioral Techniques: Gradually retraining your bladder can also be beneficial. This involves setting a schedule for urination and gradually increasing the time between bathroom visits to help your bladder regain its natural rhythm.


Conclusion
Your situation is complex, and it’s important to approach it holistically. Continue working closely with your healthcare providers to monitor your symptoms and adjust your treatment plan as needed. Remember that urinary issues can take time to resolve, and patience is key. If you find that your symptoms are worsening or not improving, do not hesitate to seek further medical advice. You are not alone in this journey, and there are effective treatments available to help you regain control over your urinary health.

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