Masturbation: Is It Normal for Teens?

Q: Masturbation: Is It Normal for Teens?

Hello： You are currently a middle school student. <br>If you are masturbating every two days, that might be a bit frequent. <br>To avoid fatigue that could impact your studies, it is recommended to "clear out" once or twice a week. <br>Additionally, a 14 cm erection length—are yo

Masturbation issues?

Hello Dr.
Sun, I am 14 years old.
Since I was in sixth grade, I have been masturbating almost every two days.
In the past three years, I have only experienced nocturnal emissions three or four times.
Is it too early to start masturbating in sixth grade (I am not sure about others my age)? Also, is my current masturbation frequency too high? How can I determine if it is excessive? Additionally, my erection length is about 14 centimeters; is that normal? Thank you for taking the time to respond, doctor!

Danxin de ren, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/06/13

Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology

Hello: You are currently a middle school student.
If you are masturbating every two days, that might be a bit frequent.
To avoid fatigue that could impact your studies, it is recommended to "clear out" once or twice a week.
Additionally, a 14 cm erection length—are you bragging? As far as I know, you have already surpassed two-thirds of Taiwanese men, especially considering that you are still in your developmental stage! Wishing you good health and success in your studies.

Reply Date: 2023/06/13

More Info

Masturbation is a common and normal behavior among teenagers, and it is often a part of sexual development. At the age of 14, many adolescents begin to explore their bodies and experience sexual feelings, which can lead to masturbation. It is important to understand that there is a wide range of what is considered "normal" when it comes to sexual behavior, including masturbation frequency.

Starting to masturbate at the age of 12 (or sixth grade) is not unusual. Many individuals begin this behavior during their early teenage years or even earlier. The frequency of masturbation can vary significantly from person to person. For some, doing it every couple of days is typical, while others may do it more or less frequently. As long as it does not interfere with daily activities, responsibilities, or social interactions, it is generally considered a normal part of adolescent sexual exploration.

To determine whether your masturbation habits are excessive, consider the following factors:
1. Impact on Daily Life: If masturbation is interfering with your schoolwork, social life, or other responsibilities, it may be worth examining your habits. Healthy sexual behavior should not disrupt your daily activities.

2. Physical Discomfort: If you experience pain or discomfort as a result of frequent masturbation, it may be a sign to reduce the frequency.

3. Emotional Well-being: If you find that your thoughts about masturbation are causing you distress or anxiety, it might be helpful to talk to someone about it, such as a trusted adult or healthcare provider.

4. Compulsive Behavior: If you feel unable to control the urge to masturbate, or if you feel compelled to do it even when you don’t want to, this could be a sign of a problem.

Regarding your concern about the size of your penis, a length of 14 centimeters (approximately 5.5 inches) when erect is within the average range for adult males. Penis size can vary widely among individuals, and what is most important is that you feel comfortable with your body.
It's also worth noting that sexual development is a natural process, and everyone develops at their own pace. If you have concerns about your sexual health or development, it may be beneficial to speak with a healthcare provider who can provide personalized guidance and support.

In summary, masturbation is a normal behavior for teenagers, and starting at the age of 12 is not considered too early. Your frequency seems typical, and as long as it does not negatively impact your life, it is likely not excessive. If you have further concerns about your sexual health or habits, consider discussing them with a healthcare professional for more tailored advice.

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