Concerns About Oral Sex and HIV Risk: What You Need to Know

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I had a massage on July 2nd, where I had intimate contact with the massage therapist.
I am a male and performed oral sex on a female without a condom, but there was no vaginal intercourse.
A few months ago, I had a tooth extraction.
Although it has only been 4 days since the incident (as of July 6th), I have been experiencing scalp folliculitis, and I am very worried that I might have contracted HIV.
Additionally, I would like to ask if it is reliable to get tested for HIV at a regular clinic just 5 to 6 days after the risky behavior.

123, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/07/06

Dr. Liao Zhongxin reply Internal Medicine

According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) data, there are three main transmission routes for the Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV):
1.
Sexual Transmission: Engaging in oral, anal, or vaginal intercourse, or any exchange of bodily fluids with an HIV-infected individual, carries a risk of infection.
2.
Blood Transmission:
(1) Receiving or coming into contact with blood or blood products contaminated with HIV.
(2) Sharing needles, syringes, or diluents with individuals who inject drugs and are HIV-positive.
(3) Receiving an organ transplant from an HIV-infected donor.
3.
Vertical Transmission: Infants can acquire HIV from their infected mothers during pregnancy, childbirth, or breastfeeding.
The incubation period for HIV infection has two interpretations:
1.
Symptoms resembling a cold may appear approximately 2-6 weeks after infection, indicating primary infection.
2.
The period from HIV infection to the onset of clinical symptoms typically ranges from 5 to 10 years, often referred to as the asymptomatic phase or subclinical phase.
However, as mentioned, the progression of HIV infection can vary significantly among individuals.

During the window period or asymptomatic phase, many patients may not exhibit symptoms, which can lead to continued engagement in high-risk behaviors, creating gaps in HIV prevention efforts.
While the likelihood of contracting HIV may not be high, it is still recommended to seek follow-up and counseling at nearby medical facilities.

Reply Date: 2023/07/06

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When it comes to concerns about oral sex and the risk of HIV transmission, it's important to understand the nature of the virus, the modes of transmission, and the specific circumstances surrounding your encounter.
HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is primarily transmitted through certain body fluids: blood, semen, vaginal fluids, rectal fluids, and breast milk. The most common routes of transmission are unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse and sharing needles. Oral sex is generally considered to carry a lower risk of HIV transmission compared to these other forms of sexual activity. However, it is not without risk, especially if there are open sores or cuts in the mouth, or if the person performing oral sex has gum disease or other oral health issues.

In your case, you mentioned having unprotected oral sex with a female massage therapist shortly after a dental procedure. The fact that you had a tooth extraction could potentially increase your risk, as any open wounds in the mouth can provide a pathway for the virus if the partner is HIV positive. However, the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is significantly lower than through anal or vaginal intercourse. Studies suggest that the risk of acquiring HIV through oral sex is less than 1 in 10,000 exposures, but this can vary based on several factors, including the viral load of the HIV-positive partner and the presence of any oral injuries.

Regarding your concern about testing for HIV, it is crucial to understand the window period for HIV tests. Most modern HIV tests can detect the virus within 10 to 14 days after exposure, but for the most accurate results, it is recommended to wait at least 3 months after potential exposure to get tested. This is because it can take time for the body to produce enough antibodies or viral material for the test to detect. Testing too early may result in a false negative.

You mentioned experiencing scalp folliculitis, which is inflammation of the hair follicles. While this condition can be concerning, it is not a specific symptom of HIV infection. Common early symptoms of HIV may include flu-like symptoms, but many people do not experience any symptoms at all in the early stages.
If you are feeling anxious about your situation, it is essential to seek professional help. Consider visiting a healthcare provider or a sexual health clinic where you can discuss your concerns openly. They can provide you with appropriate testing options, counseling, and support.
In the meantime, to manage your anxiety, try to engage in activities that help you relax, such as exercise, meditation, or talking to someone you trust about your fears. It is also important to avoid self-diagnosing based on symptoms you may find online, as this can lead to unnecessary worry.

In summary, while there is a risk of HIV transmission through oral sex, it is generally lower than through other sexual activities. Testing for HIV is most reliable after a window period of at least three months. If you have concerns about your health or potential exposure, consulting with a healthcare professional is the best course of action. They can provide you with accurate information, testing, and support to help you navigate this situation.

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