Masturbation issues?
Hello, doctor.
I would like to ask you a question: I am currently a high school junior about to enter my senior year, and I have a complete phimosis.
I plan to undergo circumcision when I go to college.
When I was younger, out of curiosity about my genitals, I accidentally discovered a "friction-based" method of masturbation in kindergarten, which involves lying on the floor and rubbing my legs together to create a pleasurable sensation before I achieve an erection.
During puberty, this method allowed me to ejaculate in about 2 to 3 minutes, which was very quick.
Because of my phimosis, I did not experience any pain from the friction on the floor, so I have continued to use this method until now.
However, I have recently found that I cannot ejaculate using typical masturbation techniques.
I can produce a small amount of clear pre-ejaculatory fluid, but I cannot release semen at all, and the pleasurable sensation is not as intense as with the friction method.
I can achieve an erection with manual stimulation, but after about 10 minutes, I give up.
I am very concerned about whether this will affect my reproductive health.
I would like to know if this is normal, whether I should change my friction-based habit, or if I should wait until after my circumcision to investigate further.
Thank you, doctor.
Shenghua, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/07/12
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello: You don't need to worry at all about what you mentioned, as it will definitely not affect your reproductive health.
The methods and actions of masturbation will not impact your future life either.
Once you gain practical experience, you'll understand.
At this stage, feel free to masturbate without waiting for your circumcision to be completed.
Reply Date: 2023/07/12
More Info
When it comes to understanding self-stimulation, particularly in the context of concerns about circumcision and sexual health, it's important to address several key aspects that can impact both physical and psychological well-being.
Firstly, the practice of masturbation is a normal and healthy part of human sexuality. It allows individuals to explore their bodies, understand their sexual responses, and relieve sexual tension. However, the method of masturbation can vary significantly from person to person. In your case, you mentioned using a "pressure method" while lying on the floor, which has provided you with a strong sensation and quick ejaculation. This method, while effective for you, may not be the most sustainable or healthy in the long run.
The fact that you are experiencing difficulty achieving ejaculation through more conventional methods, such as manual stimulation, could be attributed to several factors. One possibility is that your body has become conditioned to respond primarily to the specific sensations provided by your current method. This is not uncommon; many individuals develop particular preferences or habits that can make it challenging to adapt to different forms of stimulation. Additionally, psychological factors such as anxiety or performance pressure can also play a significant role in sexual function.
Regarding your concerns about being uncircumcised (or having phimosis), it is essential to understand that this condition can affect sexual health and function. Phimosis can lead to difficulties with hygiene, increased risk of infections, and potential discomfort during sexual activities. If you are considering circumcision, it is advisable to consult with a qualified healthcare professional who can provide guidance on the procedure, its benefits, and any potential risks involved. Many individuals report improved sexual function and satisfaction after circumcision, but experiences can vary.
As for your worry about whether your current masturbation habits might impact your reproductive health, it is generally understood that masturbation does not have negative effects on fertility or sexual health when practiced in moderation. However, if you find that your current method is causing discomfort or if you are experiencing pain or other issues, it may be worth exploring alternative techniques or seeking professional advice.
In terms of transitioning away from your current method, it might be beneficial to gradually incorporate different forms of stimulation into your routine. This could involve experimenting with manual stimulation, using lubrication, or even exploring sexual aids designed to enhance pleasure. The goal is to diversify your experiences and help your body adapt to different sensations, which may ultimately lead to a more satisfying sexual experience.
Lastly, it is crucial to maintain open communication with healthcare providers about any concerns you have regarding your sexual health. They can offer personalized advice and support tailored to your specific situation. Remember, sexual health is an integral part of overall well-being, and seeking help when needed is a positive step towards achieving a healthy sexual life.
In summary, while your current method of masturbation is not inherently harmful, it may be beneficial to explore other techniques, especially if you are concerned about your sexual health and function. Consulting with a healthcare professional about circumcision and any related issues can provide clarity and support as you navigate these concerns.
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