Masturbation issues?
Hello, doctor.
I would like to ask: I started masturbating around the age of 11-12, but I rarely experience the release of pre-ejaculatory fluid before ejaculation, maybe only once or twice, and the amount is very small.
Is there a problem with this? How can I address it? What is the best way to lubricate during this process? Thank you, doctor.
A-Ming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/08/11
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello Amin: It's not necessary to worry if there is no pre-ejaculatory fluid released before ejaculation.
Additionally, is the volume of your ejaculate normal? Regarding lubrication, please ensure your hands are clean and that the lubricants you use are not too irritating; there are no restrictions on the brands of lubricants! Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2023/08/11
More Info
Understanding ejaculation and lubrication from a urology perspective involves a few key concepts related to male sexual health, anatomy, and physiology.
Firstly, it is important to understand that ejaculation is a complex process that involves the release of semen from the male reproductive system. This process typically includes the expulsion of sperm from the testicles, mixing with seminal fluid from the seminal vesicles and prostate gland, and then being expelled through the urethra. The fluid that is released prior to ejaculation is known as pre-ejaculatory fluid or pre-cum, which is produced by the Cowper's glands (bulbourethral glands). This fluid serves several purposes: it helps to lubricate the urethra, neutralizes acidity in the urethra, and may also contain sperm.
In your case, starting to masturbate around the ages of 11-12 is quite common, as this is a period when many boys begin to explore their bodies and experience sexual arousal. The absence of pre-ejaculatory fluid or its minimal amount before ejaculation is not necessarily indicative of a problem. Variability in the amount of pre-ejaculatory fluid can be influenced by several factors, including hydration levels, arousal, and individual anatomical differences. Some individuals may produce more fluid than others, and this is generally considered normal.
If you are concerned about the amount of pre-ejaculatory fluid or the overall experience of ejaculation, it is advisable to consult with a healthcare professional, particularly a urologist. They can provide a thorough evaluation to rule out any underlying issues, such as hormonal imbalances or anatomical concerns.
Regarding lubrication, it is essential to use appropriate products to enhance comfort during masturbation or sexual activity. Water-based lubricants are often recommended as they are safe to use with condoms and are easy to clean up. Silicone-based lubricants can also be effective, providing a longer-lasting glide, but they may not be suitable for use with all types of condoms. Avoid using oil-based lubricants if you are using latex condoms, as they can cause the condom to break.
If you find that you are experiencing discomfort during masturbation or sexual activity, using a lubricant can help alleviate this. It is also important to ensure that you are adequately aroused, as this can enhance natural lubrication. Engaging in foreplay or other forms of stimulation can help increase arousal and may lead to more natural lubrication.
In summary, the absence of significant pre-ejaculatory fluid is not necessarily a cause for concern, and individual experiences can vary widely. If you have ongoing worries or experience discomfort, seeking advice from a healthcare provider is a good step. Additionally, using appropriate lubricants can enhance your experience and comfort during sexual activities. Always prioritize your health and well-being, and don’t hesitate to reach out for professional guidance when needed.
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