Painful Intercourse: Insights for Endometriosis Sufferers - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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Dyspareunia


Hello Doctor: I have a history of endometriosis and chocolate cysts.
Three years ago, I underwent laparoscopic surgery to remove the cysts from my ovaries.
However, I have been experiencing pain during intercourse since then, and it has not improved after the surgery.
My pain symptoms occur before intercourse; as soon as I have thoughts of sexual arousal, I experience severe pain in my lower abdomen, around the area of the uterus, even before any physical contact with the genitalia.
The pain has been worsening, and it is now significantly affecting my marital life.
If I accidentally reach orgasm, the pain in my lower abdomen, accompanied by uterine cramps, is so intense that I can only roll around in agony.
The duration of the pain has also increased; it used to subside after about 2 to 3 hours, but now it can last all day.
I am even afraid to attempt intercourse anymore.
I would like to ask the doctor if the pain before intercourse is related to endometriosis.
It is very distressing to experience such severe pain in my lower abdomen due to sexual excitement before anything has even started.
Where should I seek medical help, or which type of doctor should I consult?

Cathy, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/10/01

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Hello, it may still be related to endometriosis.
The surgery has already been performed, and we are currently considering taking some pain relief medication to see if it improves.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2023/10/01

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Understanding painful intercourse, particularly in the context of endometriosis, is crucial for those suffering from this condition. Endometriosis is a chronic condition where tissue similar to the lining of the uterus grows outside the uterus, leading to various symptoms, including pelvic pain, painful periods, and painful intercourse (dyspareunia).
In your case, the pain you experience before intercourse, even at the thought of sexual arousal, could indeed be linked to your history of endometriosis. This condition can cause significant changes in the pelvic anatomy, including scarring and adhesions, which may lead to heightened sensitivity and pain during sexual arousal. The pain you describe, particularly the severe cramping and discomfort during and after sexual activity, is not uncommon among individuals with endometriosis.
The mechanism behind this pain can be multifaceted. First, the presence of endometrial tissue outside the uterus can lead to inflammation and irritation of surrounding tissues, which may become more sensitive during sexual arousal due to increased blood flow and muscle tension in the pelvic region. Additionally, the psychological aspect of anticipating pain can also contribute to a cycle of anxiety and increased sensitivity, making the experience of intimacy more challenging.

Given that your symptoms have persisted and even worsened after surgery, it may be beneficial to explore further treatment options. Here are some recommendations:
1. Consult a Specialist: It would be advisable to seek out a gynecologist who specializes in endometriosis or a pelvic pain specialist. They can provide a comprehensive evaluation of your condition and discuss potential treatment options tailored to your specific symptoms.

2. Pain Management: Discuss pain management strategies with your healthcare provider. This may include medications such as NSAIDs (non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs) to help alleviate pain during intercourse. In some cases, hormonal treatments may also be beneficial in managing endometriosis symptoms.

3. Physical Therapy: Pelvic floor physical therapy can be an effective treatment for individuals experiencing pelvic pain. A trained physical therapist can help you learn relaxation techniques and exercises to alleviate tension in the pelvic muscles, which may help reduce pain during intercourse.

4. Counseling or Sex Therapy: Since pain during intercourse can lead to anxiety and avoidance of sexual activity, speaking with a counselor or sex therapist may help address the emotional and psychological aspects of your experience. They can provide strategies to improve intimacy and communication with your partner.

5. Lifestyle Modifications: Consider lifestyle changes that may help manage your symptoms, such as stress reduction techniques, regular exercise, and a balanced diet. Stress can exacerbate pain, so finding effective ways to manage stress is crucial.

6. Follow-Up Care: Regular follow-ups with your healthcare provider are essential to monitor your condition and adjust treatment as necessary. If your symptoms continue to worsen, further diagnostic imaging or procedures may be warranted to assess for any new developments related to your endometriosis.

In summary, the pain you are experiencing is likely related to your history of endometriosis, and it is essential to address both the physical and emotional aspects of your symptoms. Seeking specialized care and exploring various treatment options can help improve your quality of life and restore intimacy in your relationship.

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