Can You Get Pregnant from First-Time Protected Sex?

Is it possible to get pregnant this way?

A few days ago, I had sexual intercourse for the first time with my boyfriend, and it was our first time for both of us.
We used a condom during the process, and since it was our first time, there was no penetration to the fullest extent.
Afterward, we performed a water test to check for any holes in the condom, filling it only to the first third (it did not break), and we did not fill it further (visually, there was nothing and it was not wet).
I would like to know what the chances of pregnancy are in this situation.
I am very anxious.
😓

Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/10/11

Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, the failure rate of correctly using condoms throughout is about 5%.
It is recommended that if your period is a week late, you should take a urine test to check for pregnancy.
Thank you! Wishing you peace and health.
Dr.
Zhang

Reply Date: 2023/10/11

More Info

When it comes to the question of whether you can get pregnant from first-time protected sex, especially when using a condom, the short answer is that the risk is significantly reduced, but not entirely eliminated.
Condoms are one of the most effective forms of contraception when used correctly. They work by creating a barrier that prevents sperm from entering the vagina and fertilizing an egg. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), when used perfectly, condoms have a failure rate of about 2%. However, with typical use, which accounts for human error, the failure rate can be as high as 18%. This means that while condoms are effective, they are not foolproof.

In your case, since you mentioned that both you and your boyfriend used a condom throughout the entire process and checked for any leaks afterward, it sounds like you took the necessary precautions to minimize the risk of pregnancy. The fact that you filled the condom with water and found no leaks is a good sign that it was intact during use.
It's also important to note that even if penetration did not occur deeply, there is still a possibility of sperm being present in pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum), which can sometimes contain sperm. This is why it is crucial to use a condom from the very beginning of any sexual activity, even during foreplay, to ensure that no sperm comes into contact with the vaginal area.

If you are feeling anxious about the possibility of pregnancy, it might be helpful to consider emergency contraception options, which can be taken within a certain time frame after unprotected sex to prevent pregnancy. However, since you used a condom, the likelihood of needing emergency contraception is low.

In addition to the physical aspects of sexual health, it’s also essential to consider emotional readiness and communication with your partner. Engaging in sexual activity for the first time can be a significant experience, and it's normal to feel nervous or anxious. Open communication with your partner about your feelings, boundaries, and concerns can help alleviate some of that anxiety.

Lastly, if you have ongoing concerns about pregnancy or sexual health, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare provider. They can provide personalized advice, discuss contraceptive options, and help you understand your body better.

In summary, while the risk of pregnancy from your first-time protected sex is low, it is not zero. Using condoms correctly and consistently is key to reducing that risk. If you have further concerns or questions, don't hesitate to reach out to a healthcare professional for guidance.

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