STD Risks from Hand Jobs and Bath Towels - Urology

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Hello doctor, a few days ago I went to a massage parlor where I received a hand job.
There was no oral sex or penetration involved; she only used some lubricant while helping me.
I believe her hands did not have any cuts.
In the end, due to time constraints, I finished myself.
She emphasized that she has no diseases and has been tested.
I would like to ask: 1.
What is the risk of contracting STDs (such as gonorrhea, herpes, HPV, etc.) from receiving a hand job? I do not have any cuts on my genitals and am concerned about transmission through the urethra.
2.
Is there a risk of contracting STDs from the towels used in the massage parlor (such as gonorrhea, herpes, HPV, etc.)? Thank you.

Rui, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/01/16

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: 1.
What is the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) such as gonorrhea, herpes, or HPV from receiving oral sex? I do not have any open wounds on my genitals and am concerned about transmission through the urethra.
--> There is a risk, but it is low.
2.
Is there a risk of contracting STIs from towels used in a half-service establishment? (gonorrhea, herpes, HPV, etc.) --> They are cleaned, so the risk is extremely low.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2024/01/16

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When it comes to understanding the risks of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) from activities such as hand jobs and the use of bath towels in a semi-sexual context, it's essential to consider several factors that can influence the likelihood of transmission.

1. Risk of STDs from Hand Jobs: The risk of contracting STDs from receiving a hand job is generally considered to be low, especially if there is no direct contact with bodily fluids such as semen or vaginal secretions. In your case, since there was no oral sex or penetration involved, and assuming the provider's hands were intact without any cuts or abrasions, the risk remains minimal. However, certain STDs can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact, particularly herpes (HSV) and human papillomavirus (HPV). If the provider had an active outbreak of herpes on their hands or if they had HPV, there could be a risk of transmission, albeit low.

2. Urethral Transmission: You mentioned that your genital area did not have any visible wounds, which is a positive factor in reducing the risk of transmission. However, STDs like gonorrhea and chlamydia can still be transmitted through contact with infected bodily fluids. If the provider had any infection that could be present on their hands, there is a theoretical risk of transmission through contact with your urethra, especially if there was any residual fluid.

3. Bath Towels and STD Transmission: The use of bath towels in a semi-sexual setting can pose a risk, but it is generally considered low. Most STDs require direct contact with infected bodily fluids or skin. If the towel was used by someone who had an STD, and if that towel had not dried completely, there could be a risk of transmission if you had open cuts or abrasions on your skin that came into contact with the towel. However, the likelihood of contracting an STD from a towel is significantly lower compared to direct sexual contact.

4. Preventive Measures: To minimize the risk of STDs in the future, consider the following preventive measures:
- Use protection, such as condoms, even during non-penetrative sexual activities.

- Ensure that both you and your partner are aware of each other’s sexual health status and have regular STD screenings.

- Avoid sexual activities if either party has visible sores, cuts, or any signs of infection.

5. Testing and Consultation: If you have concerns about potential exposure to STDs, it is advisable to get tested. Many STDs can be asymptomatic, so regular testing is crucial for sexually active individuals. Consulting a healthcare provider can also provide you with personalized advice based on your specific situation.

In summary, while the risk of contracting STDs from a hand job and using bath towels is relatively low, it is not entirely absent. Practicing safe sex and maintaining open communication with sexual partners about health status can significantly reduce the risk of transmission. If you have any symptoms or concerns, seeking medical advice and testing is always a prudent step.

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