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I'm a 25-year-old office worker.
A few days ago, I went to a sauna with some colleagues and realized that my penis is quite impressive.
I've been married for almost three years, but recently, sexual activity hasn't been very smooth, especially regarding hardness.
While chatting with my colleagues, I found that those with shorter penises seem to have no issues with hardness.
What could be the problem?
Additionally, I have a personal issue.
Once, I encountered a guy in the restroom.
Since guys tend to compare, he mentioned that my penis was too dark.
After that, I went with him to a hospital where I met a woman who claimed to be his wife.
I then felt faint and when I woke up, I found myself completely undressed and covered in semen.
It turned out I had encountered a strange couple.
There was also a note that said "not a man." Since then, I haven't had sexual relations with my wife, and now I'm even having difficulty achieving an erection.
What could be the issue?
Wang ei, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/02/12
Dr. Zhang Chengye reply Urology
Hello, Wang: Based on your description, it is difficult to accurately determine how your issue has arisen.
Please visit the urology outpatient clinic for the most appropriate assistance from a physician.
Sincerely, Dr.
Lai Rong-Hao, Attending Physician, Urology Department, Hsinchu Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan.
Reply Date: 2004/02/12
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a condition that can affect men of all ages, including young men in their twenties and thirties. As a 25-year-old office worker, it's understandable that you're concerned about your sexual health, especially given your recent experiences and the changes you've noticed in your sexual performance. Let's break down the potential causes of your erectile dysfunction and address your concerns.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction in Young Men
1. Psychological Factors: One of the most common causes of erectile dysfunction in younger men is psychological. Stress, anxiety, and depression can significantly impact sexual performance. If you've been feeling anxious about your sexual abilities or have had negative experiences related to sex, this could contribute to your difficulties. The incident you described in the restroom may have caused psychological trauma, leading to performance anxiety.
2. Lifestyle Choices: Factors such as poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, and excessive alcohol consumption can also contribute to erectile dysfunction. Even if you consider your weight to be normal, other lifestyle habits can affect blood flow and hormone levels, which are crucial for achieving and maintaining an erection.
3. Medical Conditions: Although less common in younger men, certain medical conditions can lead to erectile dysfunction. These include hormonal imbalances, diabetes, and cardiovascular issues. If you have any underlying health conditions, it would be wise to consult a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation.
4. Medication Side Effects: If you are taking any medications, it's essential to consider the possibility of side effects that may affect your sexual function. Some medications can lead to decreased libido or erectile difficulties.
5. Physical Factors: Conditions such as Peyronie's disease, which involves the development of fibrous scar tissue inside the penis, can lead to difficulties with erections. Additionally, issues with blood flow due to vascular problems can also be a factor.
Addressing Your Concerns
Given your situation, it is crucial to take a holistic approach to address your erectile dysfunction:
- Consult a Healthcare Professional: It's essential to speak with a urologist or a healthcare provider who specializes in sexual health. They can perform necessary tests to rule out any medical conditions and provide tailored advice based on your specific situation.
- Psychological Support: If you suspect that psychological factors are contributing to your erectile dysfunction, consider seeking counseling or therapy. A mental health professional can help you work through any anxiety or trauma you may be experiencing.
- Lifestyle Modifications: Focus on improving your overall health through diet and exercise. Regular physical activity can enhance blood flow and improve your mood, which may positively impact your sexual health.
- Open Communication with Your Partner: If you're in a relationship, discussing your concerns with your partner can help alleviate some of the pressure you may be feeling. Open communication can foster understanding and support.
- Avoid Comparisons: It's important to remember that every individual is different. Comparing yourself to others can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety. Focus on your own health and well-being.
Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction is a complex issue that can stem from various factors, including psychological, lifestyle, and medical causes. As a young man, experiencing such difficulties can be distressing, but it's essential to approach the situation with a proactive mindset. Seeking professional help, making lifestyle changes, and addressing any psychological concerns can lead to improvements in your sexual health. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men face similar challenges. With the right support and resources, you can work towards regaining your confidence and sexual function.
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