What should I do?
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over a year, and we have a normal sexual relationship.
However, recently, I often experience an erection during foreplay, but when it comes to penetration, I cannot maintain it and it becomes soft, making it difficult to enter.
I previously went to the hospital for frequent urination, and the doctor diagnosed me with overactive bladder and urinary difficulty.
I took medication for two weeks.
Could my inability to maintain an erection be related to this medication, or could there be other factors involved?
Xiao Lin, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/05/09
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Xiao Lin: Hello, regarding your situation, let me confirm a few things: 1.
Have you had normal sexual activity over the past year? 2.
Have you been taking any medications in the last two weeks, and if so, are you still taking them or have you stopped? If you have stopped, how long has it been? Generally, when treating overactive bladder, medications such as sympathomimetics/anticholinergics, muscle relaxants, and central nervous system agents may be used.
Some individuals with specific physiological conditions may experience effects on sexual function due to these medications.
Fortunately, most people tend to recover naturally after discontinuing the medication.
Your situation may also involve psychological factors: if your physical condition has been poor recently, it could naturally affect your performance (possibly compounded by the effects of the medication, leading to further fatigue).
This could create a psychological barrier in your mind.
Until now, you may experience psychological interference whenever you engage in sexual activity.
You might want to try: if you achieve an erection but do not engage in sexual activity, how long does it take for it to subside? Generally, psychological factors in such cases do not dissipate quickly.
If you find that it subsides quickly, I recommend consulting a specialist.
Director of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan, Hsu Wei-Kai.
Reply Date: 2004/05/09
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be a complex issue influenced by various factors, including psychological, physiological, and medication-related causes. Given your situation, where you have been in a stable relationship and have previously experienced normal sexual function, it’s understandable that the recent changes in your erectile ability are concerning.
Firstly, it’s important to consider the medications you have been prescribed for your overactive bladder and urinary difficulties. Medications such as anticholinergics, which are commonly used to treat overactive bladder, can have side effects that impact sexual function. These side effects may include decreased libido, difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection, and delayed ejaculation. If you have been taking these medications for a couple of weeks and have noticed a correlation with your erectile issues, it is worth discussing this with your healthcare provider. They may consider adjusting your medication or exploring alternative treatments that have fewer sexual side effects.
In addition to medication, psychological factors can also play a significant role in erectile function. Stress, anxiety, and performance pressure can lead to difficulties in achieving or maintaining an erection. If you are feeling anxious about your sexual performance, this could create a cycle where anxiety leads to erectile difficulties, which in turn increases anxiety. It’s essential to address these psychological aspects, possibly through counseling or therapy, to help alleviate performance anxiety and improve your sexual confidence.
Furthermore, physical health factors should not be overlooked. Conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, and cardiovascular disease can contribute to erectile dysfunction. If you have any underlying health issues or risk factors, it would be beneficial to have a comprehensive evaluation by a healthcare professional. They may recommend lifestyle changes, such as exercise, a healthy diet, and smoking cessation, which can improve overall health and potentially enhance erectile function.
Lastly, communication with your partner is crucial. Discussing your concerns and experiences openly can help reduce anxiety and foster intimacy. It’s important to remember that erectile dysfunction is a common issue and can happen to anyone. By approaching the situation together, you can create a supportive environment that may alleviate some of the pressure you feel.
In summary, your recent erectile issues could be related to the medication you are taking, psychological factors, or other underlying health conditions. It is advisable to consult with your healthcare provider to discuss your symptoms in detail, review your current medications, and explore potential treatment options. Addressing both the physical and psychological aspects of erectile dysfunction can lead to a more comprehensive approach to restoring your sexual health and enhancing your relationship.
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