Sexual Health Risks After One-Night Stands - Urology

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Hello Dr.
Tsai,
A few days ago, I had a one-night stand with a stranger after drinking, and although I took precautions, I still feel uneasy psychologically.
I would like to ask you: What is the likelihood of infection despite taking safety measures? If oral sex was performed without protection, is there a risk of contracting HIV or sexually transmitted infections like syphilis? How can I check for any signs of illness? If I need to get tested, what tests should I undergo? Could you recommend some medical facilities in the Chiayi area that offer STI testing?
Wishing you peace and joy,
Concerned Little Pig

Xiao Zhu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/12/31

Dr. Pan Zhenqin reply Urology


Not every sexual encounter with an individual infected with a sexually transmitted infection (STI) will result in transmission.
Statistics indicate that the infection rate after a single sexual encounter with a general STI patient (such as syphilis, gonorrhea, or chlamydia) is approximately 20-30%, while the infection rate after sexual contact with an HIV-positive individual is about 5%.
Oral sex is also considered a form of sexual intercourse, especially if there are any open wounds in the mouth.
You can visit the Urology Departments at Chiayi Hospital, Chiayi Christian Hospital, or St.
Martin Hospital.
Wishing you health and safety from the Urology Department of Tainan Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare!

Reply Date: 2004/12/31

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Hello, thank you for your question regarding sexual health risks after a one-night stand. It’s completely understandable to feel anxious after engaging in sexual activity, especially with a new partner. Let’s break down your concerns and provide some clarity on the risks involved, the importance of testing, and what steps you can take moving forward.

Firstly, when it comes to sexual health, using protection such as condoms significantly reduces the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV and syphilis. However, it’s important to note that while condoms are highly effective, they are not 100% foolproof. If you engaged in oral sex without a condom, there is a potential risk for STIs, as infections can be transmitted through oral contact with infected bodily fluids or sores.

Regarding your specific concerns about HIV and syphilis, the risk of contracting these infections varies based on several factors, including the type of sexual activity, the presence of any cuts or sores, and the STI status of your partner. Oral sex is generally considered to be lower risk compared to vaginal or anal intercourse, but it is not without risk, especially if there are any open wounds in the mouth or if the partner has an active infection.

To monitor for any signs of infection, it’s essential to be aware of common symptoms associated with STIs. These can include unusual discharge, sores or bumps in the genital area, itching, burning during urination, or flu-like symptoms. However, many STIs can be asymptomatic, meaning that individuals may not exhibit any symptoms even if they are infected. This is why regular testing is crucial, especially after new sexual encounters.

As for testing, it is generally recommended to get tested for STIs about 2 weeks to 6 weeks after potential exposure, as this allows enough time for infections to become detectable. For comprehensive screening, you should consider testing for HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. Many healthcare providers offer these tests, and some clinics specialize in sexual health.

In terms of finding testing facilities in the Chiayi area, I recommend checking with local hospitals, community health centers, or specialized sexual health clinics. Many of these facilities provide confidential testing and can offer guidance on prevention and treatment options. You can also look for organizations that focus on sexual health education and services, as they often have resources for testing.

Lastly, it’s important to take care of your mental health during this time. Anxiety about potential infections is common, but remember that many STIs are treatable, and early detection is key to effective management. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, consider speaking with a healthcare professional or a counselor who can provide support and guidance.

In conclusion, while the use of condoms significantly reduces the risk of STIs, it’s essential to remain vigilant and proactive about your sexual health. Regular testing, being aware of symptoms, and maintaining open communication with partners about sexual health are all vital steps in ensuring your well-being. If you have any further questions or need assistance finding testing facilities, don’t hesitate to reach out. Stay safe and take care!

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