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Hello, doctor.
I have a question that has been bothering me for a long time.
I consider myself to be relatively healthy, but when I have intercourse with my wife, it never lasts more than three minutes.
Even though I try to control myself, I find it very difficult to endure.
I am thinking of using traditional Chinese herbs that are known for their effects on strengthening and astringing essence, such as Cuscuta (Tu Si Zi), Goji Berries (Gou Qi Zi), Mulberries (Sang Shen Zi), Raspberries (Fu Pen Zi), Cnidium (She Chuang Zi), Galla Chinensis (Wu Bei Zi), Leek Seeds (Jiu Cai Zi), He Shou Wu (He Shou Wu), Alpinia (Yi Zhi Ren), Ligustrum (Nu Zhen Zi), and Eucommia (Du Zhong), to make a medicinal wine.
However, I am concerned that the properties of these herbs might conflict with each other.
I would like to know if using these herbs to make medicinal wine will have a strengthening effect on essence.
If so, which herbs should I use, in what proportions, and how should I prepare it? Additionally, there is a type of traditional Chinese medicine called "Fu Tu Dan," which seems to have effects on treating premature ejaculation.
I wonder if it is effective.
Lastly, sometimes after intercourse, I wake up with some stiffness and soreness in my lower back.
Is this normal? I apologize for asking so many questions.
Please help me.
Thank you!
Ray, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/02/15
Dr. Lin Qingzhong reply Traditional Chinese Medicine
1.
The duration of sexual intercourse with your wife is not the most important factor; the atmosphere is key.
Being able to maintain and complete the act within three minutes should be sufficient.
Sexual intercourse is primarily for reproduction.
From an evolutionary perspective, early humans benefited from shorter mating durations to minimize the risk of being attacked by predators or enemies.
Reports indicate that the average duration for American men is about five minutes.
2.
There are many herbal remedies that can help with sperm retention and enhancement.
It is advisable to consult a qualified Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioner for an accurate diagnosis and appropriate treatment.
3.
It is normal to experience some stiffness or soreness in the lower back the day after intercourse, as the lumbar muscles are engaged during the act.
As long as the discomfort is not severe, this is considered normal.
Finally, best wishes from Dr.
Lin Qingzhong, Director of the Traditional Chinese Medicine Department at Anhao Fengyuan Hospital.
Reply Date: 2005/02/15
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common concern among men, and many seek solutions through various means, including Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). TCM offers a holistic approach to health, focusing on the balance of bodily functions and the flow of Qi (energy). When addressing PE, TCM practitioners often consider the underlying causes, which may include kidney deficiency, emotional stress, or imbalances in the liver and spleen.
In TCM, the kidneys are believed to play a crucial role in sexual health and vitality. A deficiency in kidney energy (often referred to as "kidney Yang") can lead to symptoms such as premature ejaculation. Therefore, herbs that tonify the kidneys and stabilize the essence are often recommended. Some commonly used herbs for this purpose include:
1. Yao Zhi (韭菜子, Chive Seeds): Known for its warming properties, it is believed to strengthen the kidneys and enhance sexual function.
2. He Shou Wu (何首烏, Fo-Ti): This herb is often used to nourish the kidneys and liver, promoting overall vitality and sexual health.
3. Suan Zao Ren (酸棗仁, Sour Jujube Seed): It is used to calm the mind and alleviate stress, which can be a contributing factor to PE.
4. Wu Wei Zi (五味子, Schisandra Berry): This herb is known for its ability to stabilize and bind, which may help in controlling ejaculation.
5. Tu Si Zi (菟絲子, Cuscuta Seed): Often used to tonify the kidneys and improve sexual function.
Regarding your idea of creating a medicinal wine with these herbs, it is essential to consider the compatibility of the herbs and their effects. While many of the herbs you mentioned can be beneficial for sexual health, combining them without proper guidance may lead to unwanted interactions or diminished effects. It is advisable to consult a qualified TCM practitioner who can provide personalized recommendations based on your specific condition and constitution.
As for the preparation of a medicinal wine, a general method involves:
1. Selecting the Herbs: Choose a combination of the herbs mentioned above, focusing on those that specifically address your symptoms.
2. Proportions: A common ratio might be 1 part of each herb, but this can vary based on individual needs. A TCM practitioner can help determine the best proportions for your situation.
3. Soaking: Place the herbs in a clean glass jar and cover them with a high-quality alcohol (such as rice wine or vodka). Allow the mixture to steep for at least two weeks in a cool, dark place, shaking it occasionally.
4. Straining: After the steeping period, strain the liquid to remove the herbs. The resulting liquid can be consumed in moderation.
Regarding the use of "Fu Tu Dan" (茯菟丹), it is a traditional formula that may have applications for PE. However, its effectiveness can vary from person to person, and it is best used under the guidance of a TCM practitioner.
Experiencing stiffness or soreness in the lower back after sexual activity can be common, especially if there is tension or strain during intercourse. However, if this is a persistent issue or accompanied by pain, it may be worth discussing with a healthcare provider to rule out any underlying conditions.
In summary, TCM offers various approaches to address premature ejaculation, focusing on the balance of bodily functions and the use of specific herbs. It is crucial to consult with a qualified TCM practitioner to tailor a treatment plan that suits your individual needs and to ensure the safe and effective use of herbal remedies.
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