Severe sexual dysfunction?
Doctor, I’m currently experiencing erectile dysfunction.
I can’t even maintain an erection while showering; I have to rely on imagination or visual stimuli to achieve an erection.
Last week, when my girlfriend was over and we tried to have intercourse, I lost my erection.
She performed oral sex for half an hour, but my firmness significantly decreased, and I couldn’t ejaculate.
I felt like I was close, but ultimately, nothing happened, and I just went soft.
What should I do? Additionally, I often experience lower back pain, and sometimes after eating too much, I feel the urge to have a bowel movement, accompanied by pain in my kidneys and abdomen.
What should I do about this? Would taking Viagra help improve my situation? I would appreciate your guidance.
Thank you!
Huo, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/02/16
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Hello, first of all, there is no absolute relationship between kidney function and sexual function.
Patients undergoing dialysis do not necessarily experience sexual dysfunction.
This is a perspective from traditional Chinese medicine, and there is no definitive correlation in Western medicine.
Regarding your description, I suggest you visit a specialized hospital and consult with a specialist.
For example, at National Taiwan University Hospital, you could see Professor Hsieh Ru-Tun or Dr.
Liu Shih-Pin, or you may reach out to the Urology Department at Taitung Hospital under the Ministry of Health and Welfare, where Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai is the director.
Reply Date: 2005/02/16
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a complex condition that can significantly affect a man's quality of life, relationships, and self-esteem. Your description indicates that you are experiencing severe erectile dysfunction, which can be caused by a variety of factors, both physical and psychological. Understanding these causes is crucial for finding effective solutions.
Causes of Severe Erectile Dysfunction
1. Physical Causes:
- Cardiovascular Issues: Poor blood flow due to conditions like atherosclerosis can impede the ability to achieve or maintain an erection.
- Diabetes: This condition can damage nerves and blood vessels, leading to ED.
- Hormonal Imbalances: Low testosterone levels can contribute to erectile dysfunction.
- Neurological Disorders: Conditions such as multiple sclerosis or Parkinson's disease can affect nerve signals from the brain to the penis.
- Medications: Certain medications, particularly those for high blood pressure, depression, and anxiety, can have side effects that include ED.
- Substance Abuse: Alcohol, tobacco, and illicit drugs can impair erectile function.
2. Psychological Causes:
- Anxiety and Stress: Performance anxiety or stress related to relationships or work can lead to ED.
- Depression: This mental health condition can affect libido and sexual performance.
- Relationship Issues: Problems with a partner can lead to emotional distress, which can manifest as erectile dysfunction.
3. Lifestyle Factors:
- Obesity: Excess weight can contribute to ED by affecting hormone levels and blood flow.
- Sedentary Lifestyle: Lack of physical activity can lead to poor cardiovascular health, which is essential for erectile function.
Solutions and Treatment Options
1. Lifestyle Changes:
- Exercise: Regular physical activity can improve blood flow and reduce stress, which may help alleviate ED.
- Diet: A healthy diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can improve overall health and potentially enhance erectile function.
- Weight Management: Losing excess weight can improve erectile function, especially if obesity is a contributing factor.
2. Medical Treatments:
- Oral Medications: Phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (PDE5 inhibitors) like Viagra (sildenafil), Cialis (tadalafil), and Levitra (vardenafil) are commonly prescribed for ED. These medications enhance blood flow to the penis and can help achieve an erection when sexually stimulated.
- Hormone Therapy: If low testosterone is identified, hormone replacement therapy may be an option.
- Vacuum Erection Devices: These devices create a vacuum that pulls blood into the penis, helping to achieve an erection.
3. Psychological Counseling:
- If psychological factors are contributing to your ED, therapy with a psychologist or counselor specializing in sexual health can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and relationship issues.
4. Addressing Underlying Conditions:
- If you have conditions like diabetes, hypertension, or high cholesterol, managing these effectively can improve erectile function.
Follow-Up and Monitoring
It is essential to consult a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation. They can help identify the underlying causes of your erectile dysfunction and recommend appropriate treatments. Regular follow-ups may be necessary to monitor your progress and adjust treatment as needed.
Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction is a multifaceted issue that can stem from various physical, psychological, and lifestyle factors. By addressing these underlying causes and exploring treatment options, you can improve your sexual health and overall well-being. If you are considering medications like Viagra, it is crucial to do so under the guidance of a healthcare provider to ensure safety and efficacy. Additionally, addressing any other health concerns, such as the discomfort in your lower back and abdomen, is equally important for your overall health.
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