Insufficient hardness + curvature
Hello Doctor, I am 20 years old and have noticed that for the past six months, I have been experiencing erectile difficulties.
I do not have morning erections, and even when I do achieve an erection, it is not firm and quickly becomes soft.
I feel a lack of sexual stamina.
When watching adult films and masturbating, I also struggle to maintain an erection, and ejaculation occurs quickly, even when I am not fully erect.
I have little sexual desire in general.
I am unsure if this is related to my heart condition (mitral valve prolapse and second-degree atrioventricular block) or if it is due to my breakup with my girlfriend six months ago, who was seriously ill.
I am confused about the cause and what I should do.
I am hesitant to see a doctor due to concerns about leaving a medical record.
Additionally, I have a noticeable curvature of my penis, which seems quite severe.
Is there coverage under health insurance for this? I would like to know how much surgery at a major hospital would cost.
Is it possible to keep this surgery confidential? For example, would I need a family member to sign anything beforehand? What are the risks involved? Thank you for your response.
gainer, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/03/24
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Gainer: Sexual function is directly related to heart function; however, having heart disease does not necessarily lead to sexual dysfunction.
Your situation may be influenced by psychological factors, along with some heart issues exacerbating the condition.
A detailed diagnosis requires further examination.
Penile curvature that exceeds 30 degrees or affects sexual intercourse (making vaginal penetration difficult) may necessitate surgery.
The cost of the surgery may not be covered by health insurance and could require out-of-pocket payment (some physicians do not consider this a medical condition), while others believe it should be covered.
Therefore, you may want to inquire with various physicians, as practices can differ.
If fully self-funded, the cost may range from 20,000 to 50,000 NTD.
According to legal regulations, as long as you are an adult, you can sign the surgical consent form yourself.
However, I still hope that family members are informed as well.
Urology Department Chief, Hsu Wei-Kai, responding on behalf of the Taitung Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan, is concerned about you.
Reply Date: 2005/03/24
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) and curvature issues in young men can be concerning and confusing, especially at a young age like 20. It’s important to understand that while ED is often associated with older men, it can also affect younger individuals due to various factors, both physical and psychological.
Understanding Erectile Dysfunction in Young Men
1. Possible Causes: In young men, erectile dysfunction can stem from psychological issues such as anxiety, depression, or stress, particularly if there have been significant life changes or traumatic experiences, such as a breakup or a partner's illness. Physical causes can include hormonal imbalances, cardiovascular issues, or neurological conditions. Given your history of mitral valve prolapse and heart block, it’s essential to consider that these conditions can affect blood flow and nerve function, which are critical for achieving and maintaining an erection.
2. Psychological Factors: The emotional impact of your recent breakup and your partner's illness may contribute significantly to your current situation. Stress and anxiety can lead to a cycle where the fear of not being able to perform sexually exacerbates the problem, leading to further anxiety. It’s crucial to address these psychological aspects, possibly with the help of a mental health professional.
3. Physical Examination: Since you mentioned a curvature of the penis, it’s important to have this evaluated by a healthcare professional. Conditions like Peyronie's disease can cause curvature and may also be associated with erectile dysfunction. A physical examination and possibly imaging studies can help determine the underlying cause.
Seeking Medical Help
1. Confidentiality: It’s understandable to be concerned about medical records. In many healthcare systems, including those in the U.S., patient confidentiality is taken seriously. You can discuss your concerns about privacy with your healthcare provider. They can explain how your information will be handled and reassure you about confidentiality.
2. Consultation: It’s advisable to see a urologist, who specializes in male reproductive health. They can provide a thorough evaluation and discuss treatment options. If surgery is indicated for the curvature, they will explain the procedure, risks, and benefits.
3. Surgical Considerations: If surgery is necessary, it typically requires informed consent, which may involve a family member signing off, especially if you are under a certain age. However, this can vary by institution and the nature of the procedure. Discuss your concerns about privacy and family involvement with your doctor.
Treatment Options
1. Non-Surgical Treatments: Before considering surgery, there may be non-invasive treatments available, such as medications (like PDE5 inhibitors), vacuum erection devices, or penile injections. These can help improve erectile function and are often tried before surgical options.
2. Surgical Options: If curvature is significant and causing functional issues, surgical correction may be an option. The costs can vary widely depending on the facility and your insurance coverage. It’s best to consult with your healthcare provider for an estimate and to discuss potential insurance coverage.
3. Lifestyle Modifications: Improving lifestyle factors such as diet, exercise, and sleep can also have a positive impact on erectile function. Reducing stress through mindfulness, therapy, or relaxation techniques can be beneficial.
Conclusion
In summary, while experiencing erectile dysfunction and penile curvature at a young age can be distressing, it’s important to remember that you are not alone, and there are effective treatments available. Seeking help from a qualified healthcare provider is the first step toward understanding and addressing your concerns. They can guide you through the process, ensuring that your privacy is respected and that you receive the appropriate care for your situation.
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