Genitalia
Hello, Doctor! I have been married for six months, and my wife has been unable to conceive.
We are unsure what the issue might be, as sometimes we intentionally try during the so-called "fertile window," but there are still no results.
Additionally, I previously had some small growths at the junction of my glans and penis, but after an infection with Candida, those small growths disappeared completely.
Is there any concern regarding that? Also, after sexual intercourse, I often notice some tearing or abrasions on my penis.
Could this be due to the position we are using, or is it because my partner is not adequately lubricated? I would appreciate it if Dr.
Pan could provide a detailed response! Thank you!
Zidan, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2001/05/28
Dr. Pan Zhenqin reply Urology
Infertility is generally defined as the inability to conceive after one year of regular, unprotected intercourse.
Based on your situation, you have not yet met the criteria for infertility.
However, if you and your spouse are experiencing pressure from parents regarding this matter, you may consider consulting a urologist to evaluate semen quality as a preliminary assessment for infertility.
After all, semen analysis for men is simpler and less invasive compared to the series of tests that women typically undergo.
Reply Date: 2001/05/28
More Info
Understanding fertility challenges can be a complex and emotional journey for couples trying to conceive. In your case, it seems that there are multiple factors at play that could be affecting your fertility. Let’s break down the concerns you’ve raised and provide some insights based on medical knowledge.
Firstly, it’s important to understand that fertility issues can arise from both partners. In men, factors such as sperm quality, quantity, and overall reproductive health play a crucial role. A semen analysis is often the first step in evaluating male fertility. This analysis assesses various parameters, including sperm count, motility (movement), morphology (shape), and viability (the percentage of live sperm). If you haven’t already, it may be beneficial for you to undergo a semen analysis to identify any potential issues.
You mentioned that you and your wife have been trying to conceive for six months without success, even during the fertile window. This duration is not uncommon, as many couples may take several months to conceive. However, if you continue to experience difficulties, it might be wise to consult a fertility specialist. They can provide a comprehensive evaluation and recommend appropriate interventions.
Regarding the small growths you noticed on your penis, it’s essential to consider that any changes in the genital area should be evaluated by a healthcare professional. The disappearance of these growths after a yeast infection could indicate that they were related to the infection, but it’s crucial to ensure that they are not indicative of a more serious condition, such as a sexually transmitted infection (STI) or other dermatological issues. If you haven’t done so already, I recommend discussing this with a urologist or dermatologist who specializes in male reproductive health.
You also mentioned experiencing tearing or discomfort after intercourse. This could be due to several factors, including insufficient lubrication, which can lead to friction and tearing. It’s essential for both partners to be adequately aroused and lubricated before engaging in intercourse. If your partner is experiencing dryness, it may be helpful to explore water-based or silicone-based lubricants to reduce friction. Additionally, certain sexual positions may be more comfortable than others, so experimenting with different positions could help alleviate discomfort.
Lastly, emotional and psychological factors can also play a significant role in fertility. The stress and anxiety surrounding the conception process can sometimes create a cycle of pressure that makes it even more challenging to conceive. Open communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns is vital. If needed, consider seeking support from a counselor or therapist who specializes in fertility issues.
In summary, fertility challenges can stem from various factors, including male reproductive health, emotional stress, and physical comfort during intercourse. It’s essential to take a proactive approach by seeking medical advice, undergoing necessary evaluations, and maintaining open communication with your partner. Remember that you are not alone in this journey, and many resources are available to support you and your wife as you navigate these challenges.
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