Hello, Dr. Hsu. I have some questions and would appreciate your help in answering them. Thank you!
1.
I have had a habit of masturbation since high school.
Initially, I did it about once or twice a week, but now that I am in my senior year, I almost do it every day, sometimes up to 2 or 3 times a day.
Additionally, during masturbation, it seems like my erection is not firm enough.
What should I do about this? Also, I ejaculate very quickly, usually within a minute.
Is this considered premature ejaculation?
2.
When I am erect, the glans is still not fully exposed, but I can retract my foreskin with my hand.
Does this mean I have phimosis? I am already 18 years old, and I have heard that phimosis might affect the development of the penis.
What should I do? I have no sexual experience (I am a virgin), but I am always worried and afraid that when I get married or have a girlfriend, I won’t be able to perform.
I also don’t feel comfortable discussing this with my family, so I hope you can help me with these concerns.
Thank you very much.
A-Rong, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/06/28
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
A-Rong: Hello, this should be your first visit.
Regarding your questions, my opinions are as follows: 1.
Masturbation does not have clear evidence showing that it causes sexual dysfunction; however, it can sometimes affect the patterns of sexual behavior.
In other words, masturbation can lead to quick ejaculation, which may result in similar premature ejaculation during actual sexual intercourse at first.
However, with experience, this phenomenon tends to improve over time.
2.
Phimosis does not affect penile development.
Based on your description, it seems that your foreskin is normal, and there is no need for circumcision.
Urology Department Chief, Hsu Wei-Kai, responding on behalf of the Taitung Hospital of the Executive Yuan Health Department, cares about you.
Reply Date: 2005/06/28
More Info
When addressing concerns related to masturbation, premature ejaculation, and foreskin issues, it's important to approach the topic with sensitivity and an understanding of the physiological and psychological aspects involved.
1. Masturbation Frequency and Concerns: It's common for adolescents and young adults to engage in masturbation, and the frequency can vary widely from person to person. Masturbating 2-3 times a day is not inherently harmful, but if you feel that it is affecting your daily life, relationships, or mental health, it might be worth examining the reasons behind this behavior. The perception of insufficient erection hardness during masturbation could be influenced by various factors, including anxiety, fatigue, or even the technique used. If you are concerned about the hardness of your erections, consider factors such as stress levels, overall health, and lifestyle choices, including diet and exercise.
2. Premature Ejaculation: The experience of ejaculating within a minute of penetration or stimulation can be classified as premature ejaculation (PE). This is a common issue that many men face, and it can be influenced by psychological factors such as anxiety or excitement, as well as physiological factors. Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help in managing PE. Additionally, discussing this with a healthcare provider can lead to effective treatment options, including behavioral therapy or medications that may help prolong the duration before ejaculation.
3. Foreskin Issues: Regarding your concerns about the foreskin, if you can retract the foreskin manually but it does not retract on its own during an erection, this may indicate a condition known as phimosis, which is not uncommon. Phimosis can be physiological (normal in younger males) or pathological (due to scarring or infection). If the foreskin is too tight and causes discomfort or hygiene issues, it may be worth consulting a urologist. They can provide guidance on whether treatment is necessary, which may include stretching exercises, topical steroids, or in some cases, circumcision.
4. Psychological Impact and Seeking Help: It's understandable to feel anxious about sexual health and performance, especially when considering future relationships. Many individuals share similar fears, and it's important to remember that sexual health is a common concern. If these issues are causing significant distress, consider speaking with a mental health professional who specializes in sexual health. They can provide support and strategies to manage anxiety and improve self-esteem.
5. Communication and Education: Lastly, while it may feel uncomfortable, discussing these topics with trusted individuals, whether family members or healthcare providers, can provide relief and clarity. Education about sexual health is crucial, and understanding that many men experience similar issues can help normalize your concerns.
In summary, while your experiences are common, they can be addressed through a combination of self-awareness, behavioral techniques, and professional guidance. Seeking help from a healthcare provider can provide you with tailored advice and treatment options to improve your sexual health and overall well-being.
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