Concerns About STDs and Prostate Health After Oral Sex: A Patient's Journey - Urology

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Worried for half a year?


Hello, doctor.
About seven and a half months ago, I had unprotected oral sex.
At that time, the other person had tea in their mouth, and I did not ejaculate in their mouth.
Since then, I have been very worried about whether I could have contracted a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
Therefore, I have been continuously getting blood tests (only blood tests).
The results for STIs have all been normal, but I unexpectedly discovered that I have prostatitis and glans inflammation.
Regarding the glans inflammation, the doctor said it was due to excessive and vigorous washing (I had previously caused skin irritation on the glans by washing with hot water, thinking it was herpes, and immediately got a blood test, but the results for IgG and IgM were normal, so it was a false alarm.
The irritation was neither painful nor itchy and healed after 10 days).
Three months and six months later, I also had STI tests, and the results were normal.
During this period, I occasionally felt a dull pain in the glans or testicles.
The urologist said it was psychological.
I would like to ask the doctor: 1.
Should I no longer worry about STIs from that incident? 2.
Is the prostatitis related to that oral sex? 3.
Since I discovered the prostatitis, I have been receiving treatment.
After some time, the doctor said I was cured, but recently, because I felt strange (a feeling of fullness between the scrotum and anus), I went to see the urologist again, and the doctor said the prostatitis has recurred.
How long will the treatment take to completely cure it? Is it contagious to my partner? 4.
Is the dull pain in the glans or testicles really just psychological? I apologize for asking so many questions at once, but I am genuinely very worried.
This issue has been troubling me for nearly eight months, and I have not been able to put my mind at ease.
I feel extremely sorry and guilty towards my partner.
I sincerely ask the doctor to take the time to respond so that I can return to a normal life as soon as possible.
Thank you very much.

danxin le da ban nian, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/07/10

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Worried for half a year: Hello, I hope you no longer have to worry about your issues.
Here are my brief answers: 1.
Will I no longer have to worry about sexually transmitted infections (STIs) from now on? If, as you mentioned, after more than half a year of monitoring, all serological tests are normal, then there should be no issues with STIs (but this is limited to the tests that were conducted).
2.
Is the prostatitis related to that oral sex encounter? There is not much correlation.
3.
The doctor said...
the prostatitis has recurred...
how long will it take to be completely cured? Is it contagious to my partner? Generally, prostatitis can be likened to a cold; it can recur and be reinfected.
In other words, once it gets infected, it can flare up again.
Even after treatment, there is still a possibility of reinfection.
Typical treatment lasts about 4 to 12 weeks, depending on the type of bacteria involved.
Is there a chance of transmission? There is a possibility, but it is not very high.
Again, it depends on the pathogenic bacteria involved.
4.
Is the subtle pain in my glans or testicles really just in my head? What do you think? Sometimes, discomfort combined with psychological fear can exacerbate symptoms, especially during quiet nights when symptoms may become more pronounced.
There is a saying: "People can scare themselves to death." If you frighten yourself, the situation may seem worse.
Note: If you are really concerned, you can buy Professor Jiang Hansheng's book at a bookstore, where you will find excellent educational information about prostatitis.
Urology Department Chief, Xu Weikai, Response from Taitung Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan, Concern for you.

Reply Date: 2005/07/10

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It's understandable to feel anxious after an encounter that raises concerns about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and prostate health. Your situation involves several aspects that merit careful consideration, and I will address your questions one by one while providing additional context based on medical knowledge.

1. Should you continue to worry about STDs?
Given that you have undergone multiple STD screenings over the past seven months, and all results have returned negative, it is reasonable to conclude that you are not infected with an STD related to the oral sex encounter you described. However, it's important to note that not all STDs are detectable through blood tests alone. For example, some infections may require specific tests (like urine tests for chlamydia and gonorrhea) or may not show up immediately after exposure. If you have not had these tests, it may be worth discussing with your healthcare provider.

2. Is there a connection between your prostate inflammation and the oral sex encounter?
Prostatitis, or inflammation of the prostate, can be caused by various factors, including bacterial infections, but it is not typically associated with oral sex unless there is a direct transmission of bacteria. Your healthcare provider's assessment that your prostate inflammation is likely unrelated to the oral sex encounter is consistent with medical understanding. Factors such as stress, frequent washing, and irritation can also contribute to prostate issues.

3. How long does treatment for prostatitis take, and can it be transmitted to a partner?
The duration of treatment for prostatitis can vary widely depending on the underlying cause. Acute bacterial prostatitis may require a few weeks of antibiotics, while chronic prostatitis can take longer and may require ongoing management. It's also important to note that while prostatitis itself is not contagious, the bacteria that may cause it could potentially be transmitted through sexual contact if they are present. Good hygiene and safe sexual practices are essential to minimize any risk.

4. Are your sensations of pain in the glans or testicles purely psychological?
Pain or discomfort in the genital area can often be exacerbated by anxiety and stress. The mind-body connection is powerful, and psychological factors can amplify physical sensations. If your healthcare provider has ruled out any physical causes, it may be beneficial to explore stress management techniques or even counseling to address the anxiety that has persisted for several months.

In conclusion, while your concerns are valid, the evidence from your repeated negative STD tests suggests that you are likely not at risk for STDs from the encounter you described. The prostate inflammation may be a separate issue that requires ongoing management, and psychological factors may be contributing to your discomfort. It is essential to maintain open communication with your healthcare provider, who can guide you through both the physical and emotional aspects of your health concerns. Seeking support from mental health professionals may also help alleviate some of the anxiety you are experiencing. Remember, prioritizing your health and well-being is crucial, and taking proactive steps can help you regain peace of mind.

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