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Chen, I apologize! I would like to ask about my condition! Recently, I have been very afraid of the night.
As soon as evening comes, I can't fall asleep, and even when I do, I keep waking up suddenly.
I can't sleep if I hear even the slightest noise.
When I go down the stairs and see a raincoat, I get startled for no reason! Or if I see someone appear in the stairwell just as I blink, I get completely frightened.
I can't sleep with the lights off at night; when I close my eyes, I'm afraid that if I suddenly open them, there will be a face right in front of me.
A terrifying, grotesque, bloodied, expressionless face.
Even when I briefly close my eyes to wash my face, I can't stop my mind from racing with thoughts.
I'm even afraid that while washing my face, my elbow will accidentally touch something that feels like flesh, and that when I open my eyes, there will be a face staring at me.
A while ago, I frequently had nightmares.
I would even get scared by the dolls in my room.
Minnie’s head is black, and the front is skin-colored.
It's common for her to be thrown on the bed, but I get startled when I suddenly open the door.
I can't sleep at night without someone to keep me company; if the person accompanying me falls asleep first, I still can't sleep.
Sometimes, I only manage to sleep when the sky starts to brighten.
Two years ago, I was in a car accident, but even before the accident, I often had nightmares and felt restless.
After being hit while riding my bike, the frequency of my nightmares increased.
However, there was a period when I didn't have nightmares until a few months ago when they started again.
So, I am a bit afraid of sleeping.
After that, I stopped having nightmares, but I still fear the night.
Usually, it's very quiet at midnight; if there's a sudden noise outside, I get startled.
My mind keeps replaying terrifying scenarios.
When I open the door to step out into the dark living room, I'm afraid there will suddenly be a shadow.
Or I'm scared that something will suddenly grab me.
Or that while I'm sleeping, I’ll be terrified to open my eyes and see something horrifying! I've recently been reversing my day and night! It seems impossible to sleep without seeing the dawn.
No matter how much I want to sleep, I wake up at the slightest sound! I'm sorry for talking so much...
Shimin, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/07/28
Dr. Chen Wenyu reply Psychiatry
Insomnia, hello: Have you experienced any particular stress recently? Otherwise, how could your previously peaceful life suddenly change so drastically? Have you considered what exactly you are afraid of? Are you afraid of ghosts? Do you believe in ghosts? If ghosts exist, it implies that there are souls after death, which serves as a revelation: life is short and should not be left blank; all pleasures can wait until after death, right? If there are no ghosts, and nothing exists after death, the implication is: life is short and should not be left blank; there is no need to hold onto grievances, as nothing will be taken with you after death.
Regarding the life events preceding your nightmares, seek to reorganize your mind.
If this fear significantly impacts your life, then assistance from a psychiatrist is necessary.
Thank you for your letter!
Reply Date: 2005/07/28
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It sounds like you are experiencing significant nighttime anxiety and fear, which can be quite distressing and disruptive to your overall well-being. Your symptoms, including difficulty falling asleep, frequent awakenings, heightened sensitivity to sounds, and vivid nightmares, suggest that you may be dealing with a form of anxiety disorder, possibly exacerbated by past traumatic experiences such as your car accident.
Nighttime anxiety can manifest in various ways, and it often stems from underlying stressors or traumatic events. In your case, the fear of the dark and the presence of disturbing thoughts when you close your eyes indicate a heightened state of alertness and anxiety. This can lead to a vicious cycle where the fear of not being able to sleep leads to increased anxiety, which in turn makes it even harder to fall asleep.
The symptoms you describe, such as being startled by noises, feeling scared of being alone at night, and experiencing vivid nightmares, are common in individuals who have experienced trauma or have anxiety disorders. The fact that you have a history of nightmares and that they have intensified after your accident suggests that your mind may be processing unresolved fears or anxieties related to that event.
It's important to recognize that these feelings are valid and that seeking help is a positive step. Here are some strategies that may help you manage your nighttime anxiety:
1. Establish a Relaxing Bedtime Routine: Create a calming pre-sleep routine that helps signal to your body that it’s time to wind down. This could include activities such as reading, gentle stretching, or practicing mindfulness meditation.
2. Limit Stimulants: Avoid caffeine and other stimulants in the hours leading up to bedtime. These can exacerbate anxiety and disrupt sleep.
3. Create a Safe Sleep Environment: Make your bedroom a sanctuary for sleep. Consider using night lights if complete darkness is unsettling, and ensure that your sleeping area is comfortable and free from distractions.
4. Practice Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: When you find your mind racing with fearful thoughts, grounding techniques can help bring you back to the present moment. Focus on your breathing, or try to engage your senses by noticing what you can see, hear, and feel around you.
5. Seek Professional Help: Given the intensity of your symptoms, it may be beneficial to consult with a mental health professional. They can provide a thorough assessment and recommend appropriate treatments, which may include therapy (such as cognitive-behavioral therapy) or medication if necessary.
6. Consider Support Groups: Sometimes, sharing your experiences with others who have similar struggles can provide comfort and insight. Look for local or online support groups focused on anxiety or trauma.
7. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings before bed can help clear your mind and reduce anxiety. It can also serve as a way to process any fears or worries you may have.
8. Gradual Exposure: If certain situations or stimuli trigger your anxiety, consider gradually exposing yourself to them in a controlled way, allowing yourself to build resilience over time.
Remember, you are not alone in this, and many people experience similar challenges. Taking proactive steps to address your anxiety can lead to improved sleep and a better quality of life. If you feel overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Your mental health is important, and there are resources available to support you.
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