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Doctor, I would like to ask a question.
My girlfriend got her period on the 18th, and we had intercourse on the 28th.
We used a condom throughout the entire process, but during foreplay, after she helped me, I kissed her and then I helped her.
I want to know if this indirect contact could lead to pregnancy.
Also, after we finished, the condom almost slipped off when I pulled out; could that result in pregnancy? Afterward, my girlfriend felt some unexplained discomfort in her abdomen, but it wasn't very painful.
What could be the reason for this? Could it be because I was too rough? I've heard from friends that even with a condom, pregnancy can still occur; why is that? Thank you, doctor.
Yi~, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/08/31
Dr. Li Guanghan reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello: 1.
Engaging in oral sex or manual stimulation without using a condom carries risks of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.
2.
There are many causes for abdominal pain after intercourse, such as endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, pelvic tumors, or simply due to excessive impact.
Please come in for an examination.
3.
Using condoms throughout is important, but if they are not used correctly, such as failing to expel air properly or not withdrawing immediately after ejaculation, there is a possibility of condom breakage or semen leakage.
Hsinchu City Hospital, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology.
Reply Date: 2005/08/31
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When it comes to the question of whether you can get pregnant even with safe sex practices, it's essential to understand the mechanics of contraception and the potential risks involved. Safe sex typically refers to the use of condoms, which are designed to prevent pregnancy and reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). However, no contraceptive method is 100% effective, and there are several factors that can influence the likelihood of pregnancy.
In your case, you mentioned that you used a condom throughout the sexual encounter. This is a crucial step in reducing the risk of pregnancy. However, there are a few points to consider:
1. Condom Integrity: It's important to ensure that the condom is intact throughout the entire sexual act. If the condom was damaged or if there was any slippage, this could increase the risk of pregnancy. You mentioned that the condom almost slipped off when you withdrew; this is a concern. If any semen came into contact with the vaginal area, there is a possibility of pregnancy.
2. Pre-ejaculate Fluid: Even before ejaculation, the male body can release pre-ejaculate fluid, which may contain sperm. If there was any contact with this fluid and the vaginal area, it could potentially lead to pregnancy.
3. Timing of Ovulation: The timing of your girlfriend's menstrual cycle also plays a significant role. If her cycle is regular and she ovulates around day 14 (which is common for a 28-day cycle), then having intercourse on day 28 would typically be outside her fertile window. However, cycles can vary, and ovulation can sometimes occur later than expected.
4. Post-Intercourse Discomfort: The discomfort your girlfriend is experiencing could be due to several factors. It might be related to the physical activity itself, such as the intensity of the encounter or the position used. Sometimes, discomfort can also arise from anxiety about the possibility of pregnancy or from the use of lubricants or condoms that may cause irritation. If the discomfort persists or worsens, it would be advisable for her to consult a healthcare provider.
5. Contraceptive Failure: While condoms are effective, they can fail due to improper use, manufacturing defects, or damage during use. Studies suggest that with typical use, condoms have a failure rate of about 13-15%, meaning that while they are effective, there is still a small chance of pregnancy.
In summary, while using condoms significantly reduces the risk of pregnancy, it does not eliminate it entirely. If you or your girlfriend are concerned about the possibility of pregnancy, it may be wise to consider emergency contraception if the encounter was recent and if the condom was compromised. Additionally, if your girlfriend's discomfort continues or if there are any other concerning symptoms, it would be best for her to seek medical advice.
Lastly, if you are looking for more reliable contraception methods in the future, consider discussing options with a healthcare provider. There are various methods available, including hormonal birth control, intrauterine devices (IUDs), and more, which can provide additional peace of mind.
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