Navigating Pregnancy Decisions: Seeking Guidance on Abortion Options - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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I'm currently over four months pregnant, but due to recent circumstances, I need to divorce my husband.
I do not want to keep the fetus because I believe that once the child is born, they will not have a stable family or a father, and I cannot support the child on my own.
Additionally, during the early stages of my pregnancy, I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism, experienced high fevers twice, and had some spotting that required bed rest.
I have taken a considerable amount of medication, which makes me concerned about the potential impact on the child's health.
Furthermore, my MCV value was slightly below 80 (around 79) during testing for thalassemia, but after testing my husband's blood, the doctor assured me that the child would be fine.
Still, I feel uneasy.
Given these concerns, I am even more determined not to keep this child.
From the moment I discovered I was pregnant, I was very reluctant to carry the pregnancy to term and have always wanted to terminate it, but my husband insisted that I continue the pregnancy.
Now that I have decided to divorce, can I go to a qualified hospital to have a legal abortion, or am I limited to seeking illegal options? Could you please provide me with some advice? The decision of whether to continue or terminate this pregnancy is causing me significant distress.

QQ, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/09/21

Dr. Lü Lizheng reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Hello: This indeed puts you in a difficult position.
I suggest reaching out to the Social Affairs Bureau or organizations like the Lifeline Foundation for assistance.
In Taiwan, abortion is legal, and the main decision rests on your own considerations.
You could choose to carry the pregnancy to term and then have the baby adopted through a hospital; this is a personally recommended course of action.
Sincerely, Dr.
Lu Li-Cheng, Obstetrician and Gynecologist.

Reply Date: 2005/09/21

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Navigating the complexities of pregnancy decisions, especially in the context of personal circumstances such as impending divorce and health concerns, can be incredibly challenging. It’s important to approach this situation with a clear understanding of your options and the implications of each choice.

Firstly, you mentioned that you are currently over four months pregnant and are considering abortion due to various factors, including your relationship status, financial concerns, and health issues. In the United States, the legality of abortion varies by state, but generally, most states allow for abortion up to a certain point in the pregnancy, often around 24 weeks, depending on the specific circumstances and regulations. Given that you are already in your second trimester, it is crucial to consult with a healthcare provider who can guide you through the legal and medical aspects of obtaining an abortion.

You expressed concerns about the potential health impacts on your child due to your medical history, including hypothyroidism and other health issues experienced during early pregnancy. While it is understandable to worry about the health of your unborn child, it is essential to remember that many women with similar health conditions have healthy pregnancies and children. However, your feelings of anxiety and uncertainty are valid, and it’s important to address them with a healthcare professional who can provide reassurance and information tailored to your specific situation.

If you decide to pursue an abortion, it is advisable to seek care from a qualified healthcare provider or a reputable clinic that specializes in reproductive health. This ensures that you receive safe and legal medical care, which is crucial for your health and well-being. Illegal abortions can pose significant risks to your health and safety, and it is not worth compromising your well-being for the sake of convenience or fear of judgment.

In terms of your emotional and psychological state, it is also beneficial to seek support from a mental health professional. The decision to terminate a pregnancy can be emotionally taxing, and having a supportive environment to process your feelings can be invaluable. Counseling can help you navigate your feelings about motherhood, your relationship, and your future.

Additionally, consider discussing your situation with trusted friends or family members who can provide emotional support. It’s important to surround yourself with people who understand your situation and can offer encouragement as you make this difficult decision.

In summary, you have the right to make decisions about your body and your future. If you choose to pursue an abortion, seek out a qualified healthcare provider to ensure that you receive safe and legal care. Address your health concerns with your doctor, and consider seeking emotional support to help you through this challenging time. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to help you navigate your options and make the best decision for yourself and your future.

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