Kissing someone with oral herpes?
Hello, doctor...
I started kissing my girlfriend three weeks ago, and today I noticed a small red spot on her lips, which also has some blister-like formations.
I discovered this after kissing her several times.
Upon noticing it, I immediately went to see a doctor, who prescribed me a self-paid medication, VALACICLOVIR.
As of now, my lips have not shown any abnormalities.
I have heard that this could be due to contact with an infected area, and I must have come into contact with it, at least today.
My question is, have I already been infected? I'm extremely worried...
I kindly ask for your guidance.
Thank you.
ZZZ, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2006/03/23
Dr. Jiang Zheen reply Dermatology
Your girlfriend has a condition known as simple herpes.
Generally, it can only be transmitted through contact when symptoms are present.
As for determining whether an infection has occurred, it can only be confirmed once there are symptoms on the skin.
In fact, the vast majority of people contract this condition during childhood.
I also have this condition, and as a physician, I experience outbreaks about 2-3 times a year, so there is no need to worry too much.
Wishing you peace, and Jesus loves you.
Reply Date: 2006/03/23
More Info
When it comes to understanding herpes transmission, particularly in the context of kissing and cold sores, it's essential to grasp how the herpes simplex virus (HSV) operates. There are two main types of herpes simplex virus: HSV-1, which is commonly associated with oral herpes (cold sores), and HSV-2, which is primarily linked to genital herpes. However, both types can be transmitted through intimate contact, including kissing.
In your case, since you mentioned that your girlfriend has developed a red area on her lips with visible blister-like formations, it is likely that she has an active outbreak of HSV-1. Cold sores are highly contagious, especially when the blisters are present, as the virus is contained in the fluid of these sores. Kissing someone with an active outbreak poses a significant risk of transmission, as the virus can be spread through direct contact with the infected area.
You expressed concern about whether you have already been infected. The incubation period for HSV can vary, but symptoms typically appear within 2 to 12 days after exposure. Since you have not yet exhibited any symptoms, it is possible that you may not have contracted the virus, but it is also important to note that some individuals can be asymptomatic carriers. This means they can spread the virus without showing any signs of infection themselves.
Valacyclovir, the medication prescribed to you, is an antiviral drug that can help reduce the severity and duration of an outbreak if taken at the onset of symptoms. It can also be used as a preventive measure in individuals who have been exposed to the virus. If you have been in close contact with your girlfriend during her outbreak, it is advisable to monitor yourself for any signs of infection, such as tingling, itching, or the development of blisters around the mouth.
In terms of prevention, it is crucial to avoid intimate contact, including kissing, when your partner has an active outbreak. Additionally, practicing good hygiene, such as washing your hands frequently and avoiding sharing utensils or lip products, can help reduce the risk of transmission.
If you are feeling anxious about the possibility of having contracted the virus, it is wise to consult with a healthcare professional. They may recommend testing for HSV, especially if you begin to notice any symptoms. Testing can provide clarity and peace of mind, allowing you to take appropriate steps based on your health status.
In summary, while there is a risk of transmission through kissing when one partner has an active herpes outbreak, not everyone who is exposed will become infected. Monitoring for symptoms and consulting with a healthcare provider for testing and advice is the best course of action. Remember that herpes is a common virus, and many people live with it successfully. Open communication with your partner about the situation is also essential for managing both your health and your relationship.
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