Masturbation
Hello doctor, I asked you a question last time.
In the mornings, I can get an erection, but I usually don't have much response.
I find that watching adult films doesn't arouse me anymore.
I think it might be because I've watched too much and have become desensitized to that kind of stimulation.
However, even when I use manual stimulation continuously, I still feel somewhat soft, and it goes away in less than ten seconds.
I also have very little desire.
Does this mean that when I want to have sex in the future, I will need a lot of stimulation to get an erection? Since even manual stimulation doesn't seem to work well, could this be related to my ongoing worry about having erectile dysfunction? Is this what is referred to as psychological erectile dysfunction? Should I consider abstaining for a period of time and then get checked?
OO, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2006/05/16
Dr. Lin Hexing reply Urology
Hello Mr.
OO: You should reduce unnecessary masturbation.
You are not experiencing erectile dysfunction; rather, frequent masturbation and the stimulation from adult films have decreased your sexual sensitivity.
There's no need to worry about psychological barriers, and you don't necessarily have to abstain for a period of time.
I recommend engaging in activities or exercises that are beneficial for both your body and mind, especially more vigorous exercises, which can improve your physical fitness and reduce your sexual thoughts.
Activities like playing badminton, tennis, basketball, or swimming are great options.
Additionally, finding uplifting literature for mental enrichment would be better than watching adult films!
Reply Date: 2006/05/16
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common condition that affects many men at various stages of life. Understanding its causes, concerns, and potential solutions is crucial for addressing the issue effectively. Based on your description, it seems you are experiencing difficulties with achieving and maintaining an erection, which can indeed be linked to both psychological and physiological factors.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, depression, stress, and relationship issues can significantly impact sexual performance. The pressure to perform can create a cycle of anxiety that exacerbates the problem. In your case, the concern about needing greater stimulation to achieve an erection may be contributing to performance anxiety, which can further diminish sexual desire and arousal.
2. Physiological Factors: Conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, cardiovascular diseases, and hormonal imbalances can lead to ED. Lifestyle factors, including smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, and lack of physical activity, can also play a role. It's essential to consider these factors, especially if you have any underlying health conditions.
3. Desensitization: As you mentioned, frequent exposure to high levels of sexual stimulation, such as through pornography, can lead to a form of desensitization. This means that the brain may become accustomed to a certain level of stimulation, making it harder to achieve arousal in more typical situations. This phenomenon is sometimes referred to as "porn-induced erectile dysfunction."
Concerns Related to Erectile Dysfunction
Experiencing ED can lead to feelings of inadequacy, frustration, and anxiety. It can also affect relationships, as sexual intimacy is often a vital component of romantic partnerships. Addressing these concerns is essential for both mental and emotional well-being.
Solutions and Recommendations
1. Consult a Healthcare Professional: It is crucial to discuss your symptoms with a healthcare provider. They can help determine whether your ED is primarily psychological, physiological, or a combination of both. A thorough evaluation may include a physical examination, blood tests, and possibly a psychological assessment.
2. Consider Lifestyle Changes: If lifestyle factors are contributing to your ED, consider making changes such as improving your diet, increasing physical activity, reducing alcohol intake, and quitting smoking. These changes can improve overall health and may positively impact erectile function.
3. Limit Pornography Use: Reducing or eliminating pornography consumption may help reset your sexual response and improve arousal with a partner. This can be a challenging process, but many find it beneficial in the long run.
4. Psychological Counseling: If anxiety or stress is a significant factor, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be helpful. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for addressing performance anxiety and other psychological barriers to sexual function.
5. Medication: If appropriate, your doctor may prescribe medications such as phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) that can help improve blood flow to the penis and facilitate erections. However, these should be used under medical supervision.
6. Consider a Break: Taking a break from sexual activity, including masturbation, may help reduce anxiety and allow your body to reset. This can also give you time to reflect on your feelings and concerns regarding sexual performance.
Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction can be a complex issue with multiple contributing factors. It is essential to approach the situation holistically, considering both physical and psychological aspects. Consulting with a healthcare professional is a vital step in understanding your condition and exploring appropriate treatment options. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men experience similar challenges. Open communication with your partner and seeking professional help can lead to effective solutions and improved sexual health.
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