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As a freshman this year, I sometimes find it hard to control my physiological responses, particularly experiencing spontaneous erections, especially when I think about girls or sexual topics.
Sometimes, when I am talking or hanging out with girls, I also suddenly get an erection, which makes me feel embarrassed.
I don't understand why this happens.
Could it be related to my shyness? Can you please tell me how to address this issue? Thank you.

poly, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2001/11/04

Dr. Liu Jianting reply Urology


Congratulations, your development is normal.
In fact, around the age of 20, males often exhibit heightened sexual drive due to the influence of male hormones (testosterone).
However, this is also a crucial time to learn how to control one's impulses and desires.
This distinguishes humans from animals.
I recommend reading a book about sex.

Reply Date: 2001/11/04

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Experiencing uncontrollable erections, especially during young adulthood, is a common phenomenon and can be attributed to various physiological and psychological factors. As a college freshman, it is important to understand that your body is undergoing significant hormonal changes, and these changes can lead to spontaneous erections, which are often involuntary and can occur at inopportune times.


Understanding the Causes
1. Hormonal Changes: During puberty and young adulthood, testosterone levels rise significantly. This hormone plays a crucial role in sexual arousal and can lead to frequent and sometimes uncontrollable erections. The body is still adjusting to these hormonal changes, which can result in unexpected erections.

2. Psychological Factors: Your mental state can also influence the frequency of erections. If you are shy or anxious, particularly around women, your body may react in ways that feel uncontrollable. Thoughts about sexual situations or even just being in close proximity to someone you find attractive can trigger an erection. This is a normal response and is often referred to as a "psychogenic erection."
3. Physical Stimulation: Sometimes, physical sensations, such as friction from clothing or even sitting in a certain position, can stimulate an erection. This is particularly true if you are in a relaxed state or if your body is responding to stimuli without conscious thought.


Managing Uncontrollable Erections
While it may feel embarrassing, it is essential to remember that this is a normal part of male physiology. Here are some strategies to help manage these situations:
1. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practicing mindfulness can help you become more aware of your body and its responses. Techniques such as deep breathing or meditation can help reduce anxiety and may lessen the frequency of spontaneous erections.

2. Distraction Techniques: When you feel an erection coming on, try to distract yourself with non-sexual thoughts or activities. Focusing on academic work, engaging in conversation, or even physical activity can help redirect your mind and body.

3. Physical Adjustments: If you find yourself in a situation where an erection occurs, adjusting your posture or discreetly repositioning yourself can help. For example, crossing your legs or shifting your position may alleviate the pressure and reduce the visibility of the erection.

4. Understanding Your Body: Educating yourself about male anatomy and sexual health can help normalize your experiences. Understanding that many young men go through similar situations can reduce feelings of embarrassment.

5. Communication: If you feel comfortable, discussing your experiences with trusted friends or a healthcare professional can provide support and reassurance. They may offer additional insights or coping strategies.


When to Seek Help
If you find that uncontrollable erections are causing significant distress or interfering with your daily life, it may be beneficial to consult a healthcare professional. They can help determine if there are underlying issues that need to be addressed, such as anxiety or hormonal imbalances.

In conclusion, experiencing uncontrollable erections is a common occurrence for young men, particularly during the transition into adulthood. Understanding the physiological and psychological factors at play can help you manage these situations more effectively. Remember, this is a normal part of growing up, and with time, you will likely find that these occurrences become less frequent as your body continues to mature.

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