Urinary and Sexual Health Issues: A Comprehensive Guide - Urology

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Issues related to urination and masturbation?


Hello Doctor,
I have a few questions to ask:
1.
When I go to the restroom and there are many people around, I find it difficult to urinate smoothly (when I'm alone or in the morning, my urination is quite forceful).
How can I overcome this psychologically? Are there any physiological methods to improve this (medication or surgery)? (My height is 168 cm and my weight is 85 kg, so I guess I am considered overweight >_<||.
Could this be related to my prostate or sitting for too long?)
2.
Sometimes, during urination, I experience a sharp pain in the perineal area (approximately between the scrotum and the anus, slightly forward).
This occurs infrequently, about once every month or two.
What could this be?
3.
I frequently engage in DIY activities (after finishing, it stands up again = =), but during ejaculation, I forcefully try to prevent it from coming out.
Could this have negative effects?
4.
Is it normal for one testicle to be larger than the other? I feel pain when gently touching the top of the testicle (it should be the epididymis, right?).
Is this abnormal? In summary, does sexual function affect urination?
Thank you in advance, Doctor.

lulu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2006/07/10

Dr. Chen Xiuyi reply Urology


Hello: When using the restroom, if there are many people nearby, it can lead to difficulty in urination, likely due to anxiety causing bladder neck spasms.
Consider treatment with neuromuscular blockers.
Masturbation should not pose significant issues as long as it does not affect daily life.
It is normal for the testicles to be slightly different in size, but they should not differ significantly.
Gentle pressure on the top of the testicles may cause pain.
The most common issue is epididymitis, and it is advisable to seek medical attention.
Sincerely, Dr.
Chen Hsiu-Yi, Urology.

Reply Date: 2006/07/10

More Info


When it comes to urinary and sexual health issues, it's essential to approach the topic with a comprehensive understanding of the potential underlying causes and the appropriate steps to take for diagnosis and treatment. Based on your questions, let's break down the concerns and provide insights into each aspect.

1. Difficulty Urinating in Public: The issue of being unable to urinate when others are around is often related to a psychological condition known as "paruresis" or shy bladder syndrome. This condition can cause anxiety in social situations, leading to difficulty initiating urination. To overcome this, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can be beneficial, as it helps address the anxiety associated with urination in public settings. Practicing relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or visualization, may also help. From a physiological standpoint, if you are experiencing consistent issues, it might be worth consulting a urologist to rule out any underlying conditions, such as an enlarged prostate, especially given your age and weight. Lifestyle changes, including weight management and regular physical activity, can also contribute positively to urinary health.

2. Pain in the Perineal Area: Experiencing a sharp pain in the perineal region during urination could be indicative of several conditions, including prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate), urethritis (inflammation of the urethra), or even pelvic floor dysfunction. If this pain occurs infrequently (once every month or two), it might not be a significant concern, but it’s essential to monitor the frequency and severity. If the pain becomes more frequent or severe, seeking medical advice is crucial. A urologist can perform a thorough examination and may recommend tests such as a urinalysis or imaging studies to determine the cause.

3. Frequent DIY (Masturbation) and Ejaculation Control: Engaging in frequent masturbation is generally considered normal and healthy. However, if you are intentionally trying to prevent ejaculation, it could lead to discomfort or pain. This practice may also affect your sexual function over time, potentially leading to issues such as delayed ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. It’s important to listen to your body and avoid practices that cause discomfort. If you have concerns about your sexual health or function, discussing them with a healthcare provider can provide clarity and reassurance.

4. Testicular Size Discrepancy and Pain: It is common for one testicle to be slightly larger or hang lower than the other; this is usually normal anatomical variation. However, if you experience pain upon touching the testicles, especially if it is localized to one side, it could indicate conditions such as epididymitis (inflammation of the epididymis) or testicular torsion, which requires immediate medical attention. Regular self-examinations can help you monitor any changes in size, shape, or pain, and if you notice anything unusual, consulting a healthcare provider is advisable.

In summary, your urinary and sexual health concerns are valid and warrant attention. Psychological factors can significantly impact urinary function, and addressing these through therapy or relaxation techniques can be beneficial. Physical symptoms, such as pain or discomfort, should not be ignored, and seeking a urologist's expertise can help diagnose any underlying conditions. Maintaining open communication with healthcare providers about your sexual health and any practices that cause discomfort is crucial for overall well-being. Remember, prioritizing your health and seeking help when needed is a sign of strength.

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