Managing Premature Ejaculation: Solutions and Treatments for Sensitivity - Urology

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Hello Dr.
Chen, I am 30 years old.
I have had several sexual experiences and I also have a DIY habit.
My erections are normal and I have no issues with hardness.
However, I tend to ejaculate quickly during sexual intercourse and DIY, which may indicate I am overly sensitive.
I have tried using a type of condom from Durex that contains a numbing agent, but it only slightly prolonged the duration.
Are there any surgical options or medications that can help improve this issue?

Xiao Qiu, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/01/14

Dr. Chen Zhirong reply Urology


When the glans or penis of a man is stimulated (such as through touch), the sensory nerve receptors located in the genitalia transmit this information, perceived as tactile stimulation, to the second to fourth sacral spinal nerves, which then relay it to the ejaculation center.
This ejaculation center also receives signals from the brain (triggered by visual, auditory, and other sexual stimuli).
By integrating both sources of information, the ejaculation center determines when to issue the command for emission.
This command is transmitted via sympathetic nerve fibers to the smooth muscles of the prostate, tail of the epididymis, vas deferens, seminal vesicles, and the neck of the bladder, prompting these smooth muscles to contract and facilitate the release of prostatic fluid, sperm from the tail of the epididymis, and seminal fluid into the posterior urethra.
Simultaneously, to ensure the process is completed smoothly, the neck of the bladder closes immediately to prevent the semen from flowing back into the bladder.
Subsequently, the sensory nerves surrounding the posterior urethra detect this pressure from expansion and relay the information to the second to fourth sacral spinal nerves.
Upon receiving this signal, the nerve cells issue commands for the striated muscles around the urethra and the pelvic floor to contract, while relaxing the muscles at the urethral opening, creating a coordinated contraction and relaxation that expels the semen from the body, completing the ejaculation process.
In summary, the timing of ejaculation is determined by the sensitivity of the glans, the judgment of the brain's ejaculation center, and the self-regulation of the sympathetic nervous system working together; identifying the point of loss of control is essential for effective treatment.

Reply Date: 2007/01/14

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men, and it can be particularly distressing for those who experience it. Your description indicates that you have normal erectile function but find that you ejaculate quickly during sexual activity or masturbation. This heightened sensitivity can indeed be a contributing factor to premature ejaculation.
There are several approaches to managing and treating PE, which can be broadly categorized into behavioral techniques, topical anesthetics, oral medications, and, in some cases, surgical options.
Behavioral Techniques: One of the first lines of treatment for PE involves behavioral strategies. Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help you gain better control over ejaculation. The stop-start method involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stopping until the urge decreases. The squeeze technique involves squeezing the base of the penis to reduce the urge to ejaculate. These methods may require practice and patience but can be effective for many men.

Topical Anesthetics: You mentioned trying a condom with a numbing agent, which is a common approach. Topical anesthetics, such as lidocaine or benzocaine, can be applied to the penis to reduce sensitivity. These products can help prolong the time before ejaculation. However, it's essential to use them correctly and follow the instructions to avoid any adverse effects, such as numbness in your partner.

Oral Medications: There are also oral medications that can help manage PE. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), commonly used as antidepressants, have been found to delay ejaculation as a side effect. Medications like paroxetine, sertraline, and fluoxetine are often prescribed off-label for this purpose. Additionally, some men have found success with the use of tramadol, a pain medication that can also delay ejaculation. It's crucial to consult with a healthcare provider to discuss the potential benefits and risks of these medications.

Surgical Options: While surgery is not typically the first line of treatment for PE, it may be considered in rare cases where other treatments have failed. Surgical options might involve procedures that alter the sensitivity of the penis or the surrounding structures. However, these options are generally reserved for severe cases and should be discussed thoroughly with a qualified urologist.

Counseling and Therapy: Sometimes, psychological factors such as anxiety, stress, or relationship issues can contribute to PE. Speaking with a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual health can provide valuable insights and coping strategies. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can be particularly effective in addressing anxiety related to sexual performance.

Lifestyle Changes: Incorporating lifestyle changes can also be beneficial. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, and stress management techniques such as mindfulness or yoga can improve overall sexual health and reduce anxiety.

In conclusion, while premature ejaculation can be a challenging condition, there are multiple treatment options available. It is essential to consult with a healthcare professional who can provide a comprehensive evaluation and tailor a treatment plan that suits your specific needs. Open communication with your partner about your experiences and concerns can also foster understanding and support as you navigate this issue. Remember, you are not alone, and many men experience similar challenges. Seeking help is a positive step toward finding a solution.

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