Why Do Some Men Prefer Sitting to Urinate? Exploring Possible Reasons - Urology

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Do men only urinate while sitting on the toilet?


My husband is 42 years old.
Recently, I noticed that he prefers to urinate while sitting on the toilet instead of standing.
When I asked him why he chooses to sit down to urinate, he said it is to avoid splashing and making a mess in the bathroom.
I am a bit puzzled and wonder if he is telling the truth or if there might be other concerns.
Are there any medical reasons that could lead a man to prefer sitting down to urinate, such as urgency or other possibilities? Thank you for your response.
Wishing you all the best!

TIM, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/06/04

Dr. Liu Jianting reply Urology


As long as he likes it, what's the harm? You are most aware of the potential concerns for someone who shares their day and night life and sleeps together.
At 42 years old, he is likely not at the age where benign prostatic hyperplasia would cause urinary obstruction.
Honestly expressing your worries to him might reveal that there is nothing to be concerned about! Perhaps he could visit a urologist at the hospital for a check-up.

Reply Date: 2007/06/04

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There are several reasons why some men prefer to sit while urinating, and it can be a combination of personal preference, practicality, and even health considerations. Your husband’s explanation about wanting to avoid making a mess in the bathroom is a valid one and is often cited by men who choose to sit. This practice can help minimize splashing and keep the bathroom cleaner, which is particularly important in shared living situations.

From a medical perspective, there are a few considerations that could influence a man's decision to sit while urinating. One possibility is related to comfort and ease of urination. For some men, especially those who may have experienced urinary issues or discomfort, sitting can provide a more relaxed position that may facilitate urination. This is particularly relevant for men who may have conditions such as benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), which can cause urinary symptoms like urgency or difficulty starting urination. Although your husband is only 42 years old and BPH is more common in older men, it can still occur at a younger age.

Another factor could be related to psychological comfort. Some men may feel more at ease sitting down, especially if they have experienced anxiety or embarrassment in public restrooms. This can lead to a preference for sitting, as it may feel more private and secure. Additionally, sitting can be beneficial for those who may have had previous injuries or surgeries that affect their ability to stand comfortably.

In terms of health concerns, if your husband is experiencing any urinary urgency or discomfort, it would be wise for him to consult a healthcare professional. Conditions such as urinary tract infections (UTIs), prostatitis, or other urinary tract issues could lead to changes in urination habits. While it is not uncommon for men to occasionally choose to sit while urinating, if this behavior is new or accompanied by other symptoms (like pain, urgency, or changes in urinary flow), it may warrant further investigation.

Moreover, lifestyle factors can also play a role. For instance, if your husband has a busy schedule or is often in a hurry, he might find it more convenient to sit down rather than stand, especially if he is concerned about cleanliness. Additionally, if he has any underlying health conditions, such as kidney issues or other chronic illnesses, these could also influence his urination habits.

In conclusion, while your husband’s reasoning for sitting to urinate may be entirely valid and practical, it is important to remain open to the possibility of underlying health issues. Encouraging him to discuss any concerns with a healthcare provider can help ensure that there are no hidden medical conditions that need to be addressed. Ultimately, the choice of whether to sit or stand while urinating is a personal one, and as long as it does not indicate a health problem, it is perfectly acceptable for him to choose the method that he finds most comfortable and convenient.

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