Premature ejaculation or ejaculation before erection?
Hello doctor, I will turn 30 this November.
I noticed that since August of this year, I have been experiencing a phenomenon where I do not achieve penile erection when watching adult films, and instead, my penis seems to retract as if it is cold.
My scrotum also tightens.
I want to clarify that this is not my usual state.
As I become more aroused, within five minutes, I suddenly feel the urge to ejaculate, and it happens without any erection—it's more like a flow rather than an ejaculation, as there is no erection to facilitate it (I have experienced sudden ejaculation before, but it was always during an erect state).
I am really distressed.
I once consulted Dr.
Li at Yadong Hospital, who assessed my symptoms and ordered a blood test, stating that my testosterone levels were low.
He prescribed medication to relax my nerves and promote peripheral blood circulation.
However, after taking it for two weeks, there was no improvement, and the doctor did not specify what condition I have.
Later, I visited a doctor at Zhonghe Shuanghe Hospital, who, after listening to my symptoms without any tests, prescribed me Tofranil (Imipramine).
I researched its side effects and found that it can cause erectile dysfunction, so I stopped taking it after a few days.
Doctor, what unusual condition do I have? Is it premature ejaculation? Can you recommend a physician in Taipei for me to consult?
Xiao Bo, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2008/11/08
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Hello, based on your description, it could be a case of erectile dysfunction, or it might just be a normal phenomenon.
Sometimes, when sexual stimulation is not very intense, there can be a release of semen, which is normal; however, if you are unable to achieve an erection or ejaculation even during normal sexual activity, that is indeed a concern.
Further examination is needed.
Regarding testosterone deficiency in men, most medications for this condition can lead to malignant tumors, so testosterone replacement therapy is typically only prescribed in cases of severe deficiency.
If you have further questions, you can visit the outpatient clinic at National Taiwan University Hospital or Veterans General Hospital, specifically looking for specialists in sexual function, such as Dr.
Liu Shih-Pin or Dr.
Hsieh Ru-Tun.
Just make sure to consult with a physician who specializes in sexual neurology or sexual function as indicated on the clinic list.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again for further discussion and research.
Best regards, Department of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, Director Hsu Wei-Kai.
Reply Date: 2008/11/08
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common condition affecting many men, and it can be particularly distressing for those experiencing it. Based on your description, it seems you are facing a combination of symptoms that may suggest a form of PE, potentially exacerbated by psychological factors or hormonal imbalances.
Understanding Premature Ejaculation
PE is typically defined as ejaculation that occurs with minimal sexual stimulation before, during, or shortly after penetration, and it can lead to significant distress or interpersonal difficulties. The causes of PE can be multifactorial, including:
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, or past traumatic sexual experiences can contribute to premature ejaculation. Performance anxiety, in particular, can create a cycle of fear and anxiety that exacerbates the condition.
2. Physiological Factors: Hormonal imbalances, particularly low testosterone levels, can affect sexual function. Additionally, neurological conditions or issues with the pelvic floor muscles may also play a role.
3. Medical Conditions: Certain medical conditions, such as prostatitis or thyroid issues, can impact ejaculation.
4. Substance Use: Alcohol and certain medications can affect sexual performance and ejaculation.
Treatment Options
Given your experience with hormonal assessments and medications, it’s important to explore various treatment avenues. Here are some common approaches:
1. Behavioral Techniques: Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help you gain better control over ejaculation. These methods involve practicing control during sexual activity to help delay ejaculation.
2. Medications:
- Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs): Medications like paroxetine or sertraline are often prescribed off-label for PE because they can delay ejaculation.
- Topical Anesthetics: Creams or sprays containing lidocaine or prilocaine can reduce sensitivity and help delay ejaculation.
- Hormonal Therapy: If low testosterone is confirmed, testosterone replacement therapy may be considered.
3. Counseling or Therapy: Speaking with a psychologist or sex therapist can help address any underlying psychological issues contributing to PE. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can be particularly effective.
4. Lifestyle Changes: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and stress management techniques can improve overall sexual health and function.
Next Steps
It’s crucial to consult with a healthcare professional who specializes in sexual health or urology. In Taipei, you might consider visiting a urologist or a sexual health clinic. Here are a couple of recommendations:
- Taipei Medical University Hospital: They have a urology department with specialists experienced in sexual health issues.
- National Taiwan University Hospital: Known for its comprehensive care, they also have specialists in urology and sexual medicine.
Conclusion
Your symptoms are concerning, and it’s understandable that you feel distressed. It’s essential to continue seeking help from qualified healthcare providers who can offer a thorough evaluation and tailored treatment plan. Remember, PE is a common issue, and with the right approach, it can be effectively managed. Don’t hesitate to reach out to specialists who can provide the support and treatment you need.
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