Inability to achieve orgasm and premature ejaculation?
I have been engaging in long-term masturbation, which has now led to premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse.
I do have semen, but I ejaculate early and cannot reach orgasm.
Does this count as kidney deficiency, and is it treatable?
Tank Xue La, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2010/01/29
Dr. Liu Jianting reply Urology
How can "using" lead to "kidney deficiency"? It has nothing to do with long-term masturbation either; one should not be too hasty in making conclusions.
Reply Date: 2010/01/29
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men at some point in their lives. It is characterized by ejaculation that occurs sooner than desired during sexual activity, often with minimal sexual stimulation. Understanding the causes and treatment options for PE is essential for those affected, as it can significantly impact sexual satisfaction and overall quality of life.
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and depression can contribute to PE. Performance anxiety, in particular, can lead to a cycle where the fear of premature ejaculation causes it to happen more frequently.
2. Biological Factors: Hormonal imbalances, neurotransmitter levels, and certain medical conditions can play a role. For instance, conditions such as prostatitis or hyperthyroidism may contribute to PE.
3. Lifestyle Factors: Excessive alcohol consumption, drug use, and lack of physical fitness can also affect sexual performance. Additionally, a history of sexual abuse or trauma may lead to psychological issues that manifest as PE.
4. Physical Health: Conditions such as diabetes, multiple sclerosis, or other neurological disorders can affect nerve function and lead to PE.
Treatment Options
1. Behavioral Techniques: Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help men gain better control over ejaculation. These methods involve practicing control during sexual activity to delay ejaculation.
2. Psychological Counseling: Therapy can help address underlying psychological issues. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective in treating performance anxiety and other emotional factors contributing to PE.
3. Medications: Several medications can help manage PE. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as sertraline or paroxetine, are often prescribed off-label for this purpose. Topical anesthetics, like lidocaine or prilocaine, can also be applied to reduce sensitivity and delay ejaculation.
4. Lifestyle Changes: Improving overall health through regular exercise, a balanced diet, and reducing alcohol and drug use can positively impact sexual function. Stress management techniques, such as mindfulness or yoga, may also be beneficial.
5. Consultation with a Specialist: If PE persists, consulting a urologist or a sexual health specialist can provide further insights and tailored treatment options.
Addressing Your Concerns
Regarding your specific situation, it is essential to understand that frequent masturbation alone does not cause PE, but it may contribute to a pattern of sexual behavior that affects your sexual performance. The feeling of not achieving climax may be related to psychological factors or the way your body has adapted to sexual stimulation.
The term "kidney deficiency" (腎虧損) is often used in traditional Chinese medicine to describe a range of symptoms, including fatigue, low libido, and sexual dysfunction. However, from a medical standpoint, it is crucial to approach your symptoms with evidence-based practices.
If you are experiencing persistent issues with premature ejaculation, it is advisable to seek help from a healthcare professional. They can provide a thorough evaluation to rule out any underlying medical conditions and discuss appropriate treatment options tailored to your needs.
In summary, premature ejaculation is a treatable condition with various underlying causes. By addressing both psychological and physical aspects, many men can find effective solutions to improve their sexual health and overall well-being.
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