Sexual dysfunction
Hello, Dr.
Hsu.
I have a few questions I would like to ask for your guidance.
I have noticed that over the past 4.5 years, my ability to achieve an erection has been declining.
I have seen many doctors during these years, and they have all prescribed me erectile dysfunction medications, but I do not want to rely on medication indefinitely.
I would like to seek a complete treatment.
1.
Sometimes I can achieve an erection, but when I try to put on a condom, I lose my erection.
2.
Sometimes I can achieve an erection, but when I kiss, I start to leak clear fluid and then lose my erection.
3.
Sometimes I can penetrate, but my erection is not very firm, and after a few thrusts, I either lose my erection or ejaculate.
4.
My penis also has a significant curvature, bending at less than 90 degrees.
I am only in my 30s, and sometimes I worry about upsetting my girlfriend, so I secretly take Viagra.
Dr.
Hsu, could you please provide me with some advice and recommend any doctors in Taipei who can help me with treatment? I am in a lot of pain.
Thank you, Dr.
Hsu.
Xiao An, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2010/03/16
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Xiao An: Hello, if possible, you can visit National Taiwan University Hospital to see Dr.
Liu Shih-Pin, who is a very experienced physician with unique insights into the diagnosis of sexual function.
The Department of Urology at Taitung Hospital, under the Ministry of Health and Welfare, is concerned about you.
Director Hsu Wei-Kai is available for further discussion if you have any doubts regarding the response.
Reply Date: 2010/03/16
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common condition that affects many men, and it can be particularly distressing, especially when it impacts intimate relationships. Your concerns are valid, and it’s important to address them comprehensively.
1. Understanding Erectile Dysfunction: ED can stem from various causes, including psychological factors (like anxiety or depression), physical issues (such as cardiovascular disease, diabetes, or hormonal imbalances), or a combination of both. The symptoms you describe—difficulty maintaining an erection, premature ejaculation, and the presence of curvature in the penis—suggest that there may be multiple factors at play.
2. Treatment Options: While medications like Viagra (sildenafil) can provide temporary relief, they do not address the underlying causes of ED. Since you mentioned that you are looking for a more permanent solution, it would be beneficial to explore other treatment options. These may include:
- Psychosexual Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to your ED, working with a therapist who specializes in sexual health can be very helpful. They can help you address anxiety, relationship issues, or any other psychological barriers.
- Lifestyle Changes: Improving your overall health can have a significant impact on erectile function. This includes maintaining a healthy diet, exercising regularly, quitting smoking, and reducing alcohol consumption. These changes can improve blood flow and overall well-being.
- Medical Evaluation: Given your age and the symptoms you describe, it would be wise to undergo a thorough medical evaluation. This should include blood tests to check hormone levels (like testosterone), as well as assessments for cardiovascular health and diabetes. Conditions like Peyronie's disease could also be contributing to the curvature and erectile issues.
- Vacuum Erection Devices (VED): These devices can help create an erection by drawing blood into the penis. They can be a non-invasive option to consider.
- Penile Injections or Urethral Suppositories: These treatments involve directly administering medication to induce an erection. They can be effective for men who do not respond to oral medications.
- Surgery: In cases where other treatments are ineffective, surgical options such as penile implants may be considered. This is typically reserved for more severe cases.
3. Consulting a Specialist: It’s crucial to find a healthcare provider who specializes in sexual medicine or urology. They can provide a comprehensive evaluation and tailor a treatment plan to your specific needs. In Taipei, you can look for urologists who have experience in treating ED. It may be helpful to seek referrals from your primary care physician or look for specialized clinics that focus on sexual health.
4. Communication with Your Partner: Open communication with your partner about your struggles can alleviate some of the pressure you may feel during intimate moments. This can foster understanding and support, which is essential for both partners.
5. Follow-Up: Regular follow-up with your healthcare provider is important to monitor your progress and make any necessary adjustments to your treatment plan.
In conclusion, while medications can provide temporary relief, it’s essential to explore a comprehensive approach to treating erectile dysfunction. Addressing both physical and psychological factors, making lifestyle changes, and consulting with a specialist can lead to more effective and lasting solutions. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are many resources available to help you navigate this challenging situation.
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