Is there a cure for premature ejaculation?
Hello, I am 35 years old, and every time I have intercourse with my girlfriend, I ejaculate in about one minute.
My girlfriend keeps complaining that I only care about my own enjoyment.
Are there any medications that can help treat this?
Mr. Chen, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2011/05/17
Dr. Lai Ronghao reply Urology
We kindly request that you visit the urology outpatient clinic for further examination and treatment.
Reply Date: 2011/05/17
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men at some point in their lives. It is characterized by ejaculation that occurs sooner than desired, often within one minute of penetration, leading to distress for both the individual and their partner. Fortunately, there are several treatment options available that can help manage this condition and improve sexual satisfaction.
Understanding Premature Ejaculation
PE can be classified into two types: lifelong (primary) and acquired (secondary). Lifelong PE occurs from the first sexual experience, while acquired PE develops after a period of normal sexual function. The causes of PE can be multifactorial, including psychological factors (such as anxiety or stress), biological factors (like hormonal imbalances or neurological issues), and relationship dynamics.
Treatment Options
1. Behavioral Techniques:
- Start-Stop Technique: This involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stopping until the urge decreases. This can help you gain better control over your ejaculation.
- Squeeze Technique: Similar to the start-stop method, this technique involves squeezing the penis at the base when you feel the urge to ejaculate, which can help delay ejaculation.
2. Topical Anesthetics:
- Over-the-counter creams or sprays containing lidocaine or benzocaine can be applied to the penis to reduce sensitivity. This can help prolong the time before ejaculation. However, it’s important to use these products as directed to avoid numbness in your partner.
3. Oral Medications:
- Certain antidepressants, particularly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) like paroxetine, sertraline, and fluoxetine, have been found to delay ejaculation as a side effect. These medications can be prescribed by a healthcare provider and may take several weeks to show effectiveness.
- Another option is the use of the medication dapoxetine, which is specifically designed for the treatment of PE and can be taken on-demand before sexual activity.
4. Counseling and Therapy:
- If psychological factors are contributing to your PE, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety, improve sexual confidence, and enhance communication with your partner.
5. Pelvic Floor Exercises:
- Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises (often referred to as Kegel exercises) can help improve control over ejaculation. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles used to stop urination.
6. Medical Devices:
- Some men find success with vacuum erection devices (VEDs) that can help achieve and maintain an erection while delaying ejaculation.
7. Surgery:
- In rare cases, surgical options may be considered, particularly if there is an underlying anatomical issue contributing to PE. However, this is typically a last resort after other treatments have been explored.
Conclusion
It’s important to consult with a healthcare provider to discuss your symptoms and explore the most appropriate treatment options for your specific situation. Open communication with your partner about the issue can also help alleviate some of the stress associated with PE. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men experience similar challenges. With the right approach and treatment, there is hope for improvement and a more satisfying sexual experience.
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