Discomfort: Why Skipping Masturbation Can Cause Pressure - Urology

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Feeling uncomfortable without masturbation?


I have been frequently masturbating since elementary school, with an average of at least once a day and up to four to five times a day.
(Once, I even experienced a leg cramp while masturbating.) The main purpose is to feel pleasure afterward and to help with sleep.
Due to my personal posture, masturbation requires more physical effort, but my experience tells me that doing it too much can actually lead to insomnia.
Recently, I've encountered a problem: if I don't masturbate (with less than two days since the last time), I feel a bloated sensation in the lower abdomen.
I would like to know why this swelling sensation occurs.
If it's due to excess sperm, it shouldn't be felt in the lower abdomen, right? Also, how can I address this issue (besides masturbating), especially since it can be inconvenient to do so when sleeping next to someone? P.S.
I only masturbate when I'm not erect; I don't do it when I am erect, as I have never developed that kind of piston-like habit since childhood.

Xiao Xiao, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2012/05/24

Dr. Lin Hexing reply Urology


Hello: Occasional masturbation is fine, but doing it too often can be harmful.
There are many other activities you can engage in, such as playing tennis, swimming, or basketball.
Additionally, reading beneficial books for the mind and spirit or enjoying music can also be helpful.
Don't spend all day just thinking about masturbation.
Wishing you peace and happiness.

Reply Date: 2012/05/24

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The discomfort you are experiencing when you skip masturbation, particularly the sensation of pressure in the lower abdomen or "dan tian" area, can be attributed to several physiological and psychological factors. Understanding these factors can help you navigate your concerns and find alternative solutions to manage the discomfort.

Firstly, frequent masturbation can lead to a cycle of physical and psychological dependence. When you engage in masturbation regularly, your body becomes accustomed to the release of sexual tension and the associated dopamine release, which contributes to feelings of pleasure and relaxation. When you abstain from this activity, especially if you have a habit of doing it multiple times a day, your body may react by creating a sense of pressure or discomfort in the pelvic area. This sensation can be due to the accumulation of seminal fluid, which can create a feeling of fullness or pressure if not released.

Moreover, the pelvic region is rich in nerve endings and is closely linked to the autonomic nervous system. When you experience sexual arousal, your body goes through a series of physiological changes, including increased blood flow to the genital area. If you do not relieve this arousal through ejaculation, you may feel a lingering sense of pressure or discomfort. This is not uncommon and can happen to individuals who engage in frequent masturbation and then suddenly stop.

Additionally, the psychological aspect cannot be overlooked. If you have conditioned your mind to associate masturbation with relaxation and sleep, the absence of this activity may lead to heightened anxiety or discomfort. This psychological dependence can amplify the physical sensations you are experiencing, creating a feedback loop that reinforces the need to engage in the behavior.

To address the discomfort without resorting to masturbation, consider the following strategies:
1. Physical Activity: Engaging in regular physical exercise can help alleviate tension in the pelvic area. Activities like jogging, yoga, or stretching can promote blood circulation and relieve built-up pressure.

2. Relaxation Techniques: Incorporate relaxation methods such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation. These techniques can help reduce anxiety and promote a sense of calm, which may alleviate the discomfort.

3. Hydration and Diet: Ensure you are well-hydrated and maintain a balanced diet. Sometimes, dehydration or dietary factors can contribute to feelings of discomfort in the body.

4. Mindfulness and Distraction: Practice mindfulness to help redirect your focus away from the discomfort. Engaging in hobbies, reading, or spending time with friends can provide distraction and reduce the urge to masturbate.

5. Gradual Reduction: If you feel that your masturbation frequency is excessive, consider gradually reducing the frequency rather than stopping abruptly. This can help your body adjust to the change more comfortably.

6. Consult a Professional: If the discomfort persists or worsens, consider consulting a healthcare professional. They can provide personalized advice and rule out any underlying medical conditions that may be contributing to your symptoms.

In conclusion, the pressure you feel when skipping masturbation is likely a combination of physiological and psychological factors. By understanding these aspects and implementing alternative strategies, you can manage the discomfort effectively while maintaining a healthy relationship with your body and sexual health.

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