You will still be the same?
During the visit, the doctor said: "Even though you always express your concerns about not being able to do certain things...
next time, you still manage to accomplish everything, and in fact, you do quite well.
However, I still notice that you remain very anxious and worried every time.
Why is that? The doctor has such trust in you, but despite your efforts, you still feel this way.
It's not easy for anyone to feel this way, and I wonder why you experience these feelings."
MUR, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2012/07/16
Dr. Lin Junyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello, healthcare professionals often use positive reinforcement to encourage patients and enhance their motivation for change.
From the letter, it appears that the physician is also continuously using this approach to support you.
This indicates that after assessment, the physician believes you have the capability to implement changes, and therefore encourages you to tap into your motivation and potential until you can self-motivate and think positively on your own.
This is also at the core of the value of treatment! Wishing you all the best!
Reply Date: 2012/07/16
More Info
Understanding persistent anxiety can be a complex journey, especially when you find yourself caught in a cycle of worry and tension despite your efforts to manage it. It’s important to recognize that anxiety is not simply a matter of willpower or determination; it is a multifaceted condition that can be influenced by various factors, including biological, psychological, and environmental aspects.
Firstly, it’s essential to understand that anxiety often manifests as a response to perceived threats or stressors. This response is deeply rooted in our evolutionary history, where heightened awareness and vigilance were crucial for survival. In modern times, however, this instinct can become maladaptive, leading to chronic anxiety even in the absence of immediate danger. Your experience of feeling anxious despite performing well in tasks may indicate that your brain is still in a heightened state of alertness, which can be exhausting and frustrating.
One reason you may continue to feel anxious, even when you are accomplishing your goals, is the phenomenon known as "anxiety sensitivity." This refers to the fear of anxiety-related sensations, which can create a vicious cycle. For instance, if you feel your heart racing or your palms sweating, you might interpret these physical sensations as signs of impending failure or loss of control, which in turn heightens your anxiety. This cycle can lead to a persistent state of worry, making it challenging to break free from anxious thoughts.
Additionally, cognitive patterns play a significant role in anxiety. Many individuals with anxiety tend to engage in negative thinking patterns, such as catastrophizing or overgeneralizing. You might find yourself focusing on worst-case scenarios or believing that you will always feel this way, which can perpetuate feelings of helplessness and despair. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is an effective treatment that helps individuals identify and challenge these negative thought patterns, allowing for a more balanced perspective.
Moreover, your emotional responses can be influenced by past experiences and learned behaviors. If you have a history of anxiety or if anxiety was prevalent in your family environment, you may have internalized these patterns as a normal way of responding to stress. This learned behavior can be difficult to unlearn, even when you are aware of it and actively trying to change.
It’s also worth noting that anxiety can be exacerbated by external factors such as stress at work, academic pressures, or personal relationships. Even if you are performing well, the underlying stressors can continue to fuel your anxiety. It’s crucial to address these external factors and develop coping strategies that can help you manage stress more effectively.
To cultivate a sense of empowerment and reduce anxiety, consider incorporating mindfulness practices into your routine. Mindfulness meditation can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment, allowing you to create space between your anxious thoughts and your reactions. This practice can help you develop a greater sense of control over your emotional responses.
Additionally, engaging in regular physical activity, maintaining a healthy diet, and ensuring adequate sleep can significantly impact your overall mental health. These lifestyle factors can help regulate your mood and reduce anxiety levels.
Lastly, it’s important to communicate openly with your healthcare provider about your feelings of persistent anxiety. They can help you explore additional treatment options, including therapy or medication, if necessary. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and you don’t have to navigate this journey alone.
In conclusion, understanding persistent anxiety requires a multifaceted approach that considers biological, psychological, and environmental factors. By recognizing the patterns that contribute to your anxiety and implementing effective coping strategies, you can work towards a more balanced emotional state. Remember, progress may take time, and it’s essential to be patient and compassionate with yourself as you navigate this journey.
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